You can keep in contact through Skype though it's not the same as seeing each other in the flesh. You may not be able to meet that often either it depends on how far away you live. We used to met up every 4 months which was a bit of a strain, when you just fancy to go for a drink with someone or have a cuddle. I'm not sure if I'd get involved in a LDR again.
It's not about earning Brownie points just being able to communicate better might help. A lot of people are new to Internet Dating and dating can be more puzzling than it was some years ago. I'm lucky in that I found someone special here, but it took a lot of work to get where we are so communication is a key factor.
That's true but I notice that some people join dating sites and just sit there and wait for someone to come along. Others may not return emails regularly enough or when they do they hardly say anything worth reading.
I recently read about a 50 year old in a relationship with a 30 year old, she said it worked well for them. It seems to be a new fashion. I also saw a tv program where a woman approaching 60 was worried that her 40 year old partner would stray as she started to age.
Do you think it only works for certain age groups?
Its not me, many woman face this situation. sometime woman talk with heart, not with brain. maybe coz of togetherness the care still there, so its not love. man can be blunt, they can leave and forget everything behind, but not with woman. The problem is when idea to end the relationship come from woman, ofcourse heart will also talk.[/quot I don't think there is ever a good time, you just need to have that chat. It will be hard after but it will get easier in time.
This guy suspects his wife is cheating on him. He comes home early and she meets him at the door in a bathrobe, her hair a mess. "Where is he?" he shouts. "Where's the guy who's been sleeping with you?" "I don't know what you're talking about" she says so he tears the house apart looking for this guy. Finally he's on the second floor, in the kitchen, he looks out the window and sees some guy sitting in a Volkswagen. "Aha!" he thinks, "That's the guy who's been sleeping with my wife." He's so furious he picks up the refrigerator, throws it out the window at the guy, has a heart attack and dies.
So St. Peter meets him at the gates of Heaven and asks "What are you doing here?" The guy says "Well, I knew my wife was cheating on me so I came home early from work, saw him sitting in his Volkswagen out on the street, threw the refrigerator at him, I had a heart attack and died." St. Peter says "You don't belong here; go to Hell." He pulls a big lever, a trap door opens up and the guy disappears.
A few minutes later another guy comes up to St. Peter at the gates of Heaven. St. Peter asks "What are you doing here?" The guy says "I don't know! I was just sitting in my Volkswagen, minding my own business, when suddenly somebody throws a refrigerator at me." St. Peter wags his finger and says "I heard about you... you go to Hell too." He pulls the lever and the guy disappears.
A few minutes later another guy comes up to St. Peter at the gates of Heaven. St. Peter asks "What are you doing here?" The guy says "I don't know! I was just sitting in a refrigerator, minding my own business..."
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Why is it difficult to attract the right type
Thanks, I do that but I meant in real life as well.