Why is it difficult to attract the right type (75)
Why are they disgusting? In what sense?
I guess i see flirting as natural, but to some it could be a signal as a "come on"...oh dear lord! i wonder if people are disgusted by me flirting
I guess i see flirting as natural, but to some it could be a signal as a "come on"...oh dear lord! i wonder if people are disgusted by me flirting
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a44dreamer: I sometimes get flirted by guys who I find disgusting and not by the type who I find attractive. They say you unknowingly send off silent signals, chemistry. Does anyone have any thoughts on this?
It always depend what is the right type i am looking for. If i am 55 years old female and looking for 30 old male and i think that is the right type is never gone happen unless you pay him and very well. Right type is not always what we want. 
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a44dreamer: I sometimes get flirted by guys who I find disgusting and not by the type who I find attractive. They say you unknowingly send off silent signals, chemistry. Does anyone have any thoughts on this?
People chancing their arm with everyone. Just block and don't let it bother you.
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a44dreamer: I sometimes get flirted by guys who I find disgusting and not by the type who I find attractive. They say you unknowingly send off silent signals, chemistry. Does anyone have any thoughts on this?
I think people are far too choosy as regards to looks,and i blame the internet,as its turned the mating game into high tech window shopping,someone sees some one they like,and they go for it,next day they see something that looks better so they dump that person and grab the next,like going onto a butcher shop,buying a big steak,then walking down the road,and you see a bigger steak,so you buy bthat one and put the lesser one in the fridge.------ This poll is Archived ------
a44dreamer: I sometimes get flirted by guys who I find disgusting and not by the type who I find attractive. They say you unknowingly send off silent signals, chemistry. Does anyone have any thoughts on this?
Actually I have a lots of thought but you aint gonna like any of them...
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a44dreamer: I sometimes get flirted by guys who I find disgusting and not by the type who I find attractive. They say you unknowingly send off silent signals, chemistry. Does anyone have any thoughts on this?
Define disgusting. Such things are very relative.
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That's why I tried to attract the LEFT type..
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Amity: I guess i see flirting as natural, but to some it could be a signal as a "come on"...oh dear lord! i wonder if people are disgusted by me flirting
Flirting is great so long as you know when to stop before it goes too far
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a44dreamer: I sometimes get flirted by guys who I find disgusting and not by the type who I find attractive. They say you unknowingly send off silent signals, chemistry.
You obviously seem to have a chemistry or send out silent signals that attracts the sort of guys you find disgusting...... Try wearing some perfume that will attract the type of guys you find attractive!!
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MADDOG69: Define disgusting. Such things are very relative.
that's what you told me your great auntie in Florida..... 
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MADDOG69: Define disgusting. Such things are very relative.
Much older, overweight, married.
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Solamente: You obviously seem to have a chemistry or send out silent signals that attracts the sort of guys you find disgusting...... Try wearing some perfume that will attract the type of guys you find attractive!!
Is there a perfume for different types of guys?
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KNenagh: People chancing their arm with everyone. Just block and don't let it bother you.
Thanks, I do that but I meant in real life as well.
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rippleinapond: I think people are far too choosy as regards to looks,and i blame the internet,as its turned the mating game into high tech window shopping,someone sees some one they like,and they go for it,next day they see something that looks better so they dump that person and grab the next,like going onto a butcher shop,buying a big steak,then walking down the road,and you see a bigger steak,so you buy bthat one and put the lesser one in the fridge.
Also known as the Candy Shop Syndrome. So many lollies, so little time.
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Boban1: Actually I have a lots of thought but you aint gonna like any of them...
Oh Lordy Bo, put on a shirt eh!
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Kaybee50: Oh Lordy Bo, put on a shirt eh!
Im too hairy for my shirt ...
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Boban1: Im too hairy for my shirt ...
You're too hairy for MY shirt too!
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a44dreamer: Thanks, I do that but I meant in real life as well.
Lots of chancers in RL, too.
Just send out a flower or email to guys who are you're type on here.BOBAN, PUT ON A SHIRT I'M GOING BLIND!!!
Too much temptation, this is a singles website and no one is getting any!
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"Why is it difficult to attract the right type"
I ask myself the same thing all the time.
I ask myself the same thing all the time.
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Actually, seriously, I might have the answer to this. It has taken me 2 and a half years, and many dates, and I met one man that gave me the "key" to this mystery, and....he was right. It seems to work. 
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Kaybee50: Actually, seriously, I might have the answer to this. It has taken me 2 and a half years, and many dates, and I met one man that gave me the "key" to this mystery, and....he was right. It seems to work.
Spill Kaybee please!
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KNenagh: Spill Kaybee please!
Yeah, what she said.
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a44dreamer: I sometimes get flirted by guys who I find disgusting and not by the type who I find attractive. They say you unknowingly send off silent signals, chemistry. Does anyone have any thoughts on this?
Ok, I will. But I need to finish up here at the office. I'll "spill the beans" when I get home.
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kidatheart: Yeah, what she said.
Get yer popcorn ready Kid.
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Kaybee50: Get yer popcorn ready Kid.
K...I gots my popcorn...Lets hear these words of wisdom Bee
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Law of Attraction...that's the key.
Instead of attempting to attract someone that might like us, switch that thinking completely around. Write a profile that allows others to see themselves in what you write, and that isn't possible when we write about ourselves. Yes, it does sound odd, but...
I have been on many, many dates, and for awhile, I was attracting the wrong type of man to me, and I didn't understand why. I didn't even know that is what I was doing, and I didn't understand the reactions I was having to these men.
It took a very wise and clever man who knew me better than I knew myself to simply tell me what I've just shared with you above. This wise man found me on a local dating site and I assure you that from his first contact with me, there was an undeniable magnetism to him that I couldn't logically explain. We didn't share the same taste in music, we didn't share many of the same hobbies and interests, he was no one I would've picked out of a crowd and thought, "Wow"!
He explained to me that by describing my own personal traits, characteristics, and values...in other words...my profile was "Me Me Me", I was attracting men that possesses my same personality, which is not what I need. I am a woman needing the Ying and Yang relationship.
I had nothing to lose by giving his advice a try. I re-wrote my profile and simply put, the type of man that I have always seemed to connect and flow the best with. And my profile states nothing about what my favorite t.v. shows are, or music, or sports. It is about personality/character traits that trip this girl's triggers.
Important to note...personality/character traits, not height, weight, color of hair or any pre-conceived notion at all what physical make-up that person should have.
And the magic started happening. Confident, assertive, humorous Gentlemen were contacting me and stating that I had a "great profile" and asking to get to know me better. Even though they were the confident, assertive one, I still steer things and I don't ignore that niggly feeling in the pit of my stomach that something isn't right.
I am meeting wonderful men, I am enjoying myself, making friends, leaving my expectations about how fast things should go at the door. And I am selective, not picky, but selective. Because it's taken my almost 50 years to find out who I am, and that amount of time to figure out who my Ying is.
Instead of attempting to attract someone that might like us, switch that thinking completely around. Write a profile that allows others to see themselves in what you write, and that isn't possible when we write about ourselves. Yes, it does sound odd, but...
I have been on many, many dates, and for awhile, I was attracting the wrong type of man to me, and I didn't understand why. I didn't even know that is what I was doing, and I didn't understand the reactions I was having to these men.
It took a very wise and clever man who knew me better than I knew myself to simply tell me what I've just shared with you above. This wise man found me on a local dating site and I assure you that from his first contact with me, there was an undeniable magnetism to him that I couldn't logically explain. We didn't share the same taste in music, we didn't share many of the same hobbies and interests, he was no one I would've picked out of a crowd and thought, "Wow"!
He explained to me that by describing my own personal traits, characteristics, and values...in other words...my profile was "Me Me Me", I was attracting men that possesses my same personality, which is not what I need. I am a woman needing the Ying and Yang relationship.
I had nothing to lose by giving his advice a try. I re-wrote my profile and simply put, the type of man that I have always seemed to connect and flow the best with. And my profile states nothing about what my favorite t.v. shows are, or music, or sports. It is about personality/character traits that trip this girl's triggers.
Important to note...personality/character traits, not height, weight, color of hair or any pre-conceived notion at all what physical make-up that person should have.
And the magic started happening. Confident, assertive, humorous Gentlemen were contacting me and stating that I had a "great profile" and asking to get to know me better. Even though they were the confident, assertive one, I still steer things and I don't ignore that niggly feeling in the pit of my stomach that something isn't right.
I am meeting wonderful men, I am enjoying myself, making friends, leaving my expectations about how fast things should go at the door. And I am selective, not picky, but selective. Because it's taken my almost 50 years to find out who I am, and that amount of time to figure out who my Ying is.
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Kaybee50: Law of Attraction...that's the key.
Instead of attempting to attract someone that might like us, switch that thinking completely around. Write a profile that allows others to see themselves in what you write, and that isn't possible when we write about ourselves. Yes, it does sound odd, but...
I have been on many, many dates, and for awhile, I was attracting the wrong type of man to me, and I didn't understand why. I didn't even know that is what I was doing, and I didn't understand the reactions I was having to these men.
It took a very wise and clever man who knew me better than I knew myself to simply tell me what I've just shared with you above. This wise man found me on a local dating site and I assure you that from his first contact with me, there was an undeniable magnetism to him that I couldn't logically explain. We didn't share the same taste in music, we didn't share many of the same hobbies and interests, he was no one I would've picked out of a crowd and thought, "Wow"!
He explained to me that by describing my own personal traits, characteristics, and values...in other words...my profile was "Me Me Me", I was attracting men that possesses my same personality, which is not what I need. I am a woman needing the Ying and Yang relationship.
I had nothing to lose by giving his advice a try. I re-wrote my profile and simply put, the type of man that I have always seemed to connect and flow the best with. And my profile states nothing about what my favorite t.v. shows are, or music, or sports. It is about personality/character traits that trip this girl's triggers.
Important to note...personality/character traits, not height, weight, color of hair or any pre-conceived notion at all what physical make-up that person should have.
And the magic started happening. Confident, assertive, humorous Gentlemen were contacting me and stating that I had a "great profile" and asking to get to know me better. Even though they were the confident, assertive one, I still steer things and I don't ignore that niggly feeling in the pit of my stomach that something isn't right.
I am meeting wonderful men, I am enjoying myself, making friends, leaving my expectations about how fast things should go at the door. And I am selective, not picky, but selective. Because it's taken my almost 50 years to find out who I am, and that amount of time to figure out who my Ying is.
Instead of attempting to attract someone that might like us, switch that thinking completely around. Write a profile that allows others to see themselves in what you write, and that isn't possible when we write about ourselves. Yes, it does sound odd, but...
I have been on many, many dates, and for awhile, I was attracting the wrong type of man to me, and I didn't understand why. I didn't even know that is what I was doing, and I didn't understand the reactions I was having to these men.
It took a very wise and clever man who knew me better than I knew myself to simply tell me what I've just shared with you above. This wise man found me on a local dating site and I assure you that from his first contact with me, there was an undeniable magnetism to him that I couldn't logically explain. We didn't share the same taste in music, we didn't share many of the same hobbies and interests, he was no one I would've picked out of a crowd and thought, "Wow"!
He explained to me that by describing my own personal traits, characteristics, and values...in other words...my profile was "Me Me Me", I was attracting men that possesses my same personality, which is not what I need. I am a woman needing the Ying and Yang relationship.
I had nothing to lose by giving his advice a try. I re-wrote my profile and simply put, the type of man that I have always seemed to connect and flow the best with. And my profile states nothing about what my favorite t.v. shows are, or music, or sports. It is about personality/character traits that trip this girl's triggers.
Important to note...personality/character traits, not height, weight, color of hair or any pre-conceived notion at all what physical make-up that person should have.
And the magic started happening. Confident, assertive, humorous Gentlemen were contacting me and stating that I had a "great profile" and asking to get to know me better. Even though they were the confident, assertive one, I still steer things and I don't ignore that niggly feeling in the pit of my stomach that something isn't right.
I am meeting wonderful men, I am enjoying myself, making friends, leaving my expectations about how fast things should go at the door. And I am selective, not picky, but selective. Because it's taken my almost 50 years to find out who I am, and that amount of time to figure out who my Ying is.
Excellent and makes a lot of sense...very well done!!!
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2intrigued: Excellent and makes a lot of sense...very well done!!!
Thank you Trigs.
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