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When do two people become a 'we?'

Come on then folks.

Do you have a discussion around it?

Or do you fall into a relationship and that is it, you suddenley become a 'we'

I can think of nothing worse than having to ask a guy, 'are we in a relationship?'

RE: Who are the worst tourists all over the world?

The Brits, whilst we have a great sense of humour, are terrible travellers.

We drink, get pissed, shout, hen parties and stag parties are the worst.

We have one street in Salzburg, full of drunk Brits, the police are there often.

Any nationality has it's people who are terrible in other countries, I have met some appalling Americans.

The Japanese are always respectful.

The Middle Eastern people are lovely.

RE: I Am Just A Voice

Daniel

You are not 'just' a voice.

You are your voice and you.

hug

RE: LOL Noone in my area.

rolling on the floor laughing

RE: why do we divorce

Oh Phoenix and I have an understanding.

I am very choosy who I swear at. rolling on the floor laughing

RE: Where Have You Gone?

Well.

It is lovely and even this hard old Ice Princess heart melts at that.

RE: why do we divorce

One is humbled.

I have made some hellish mistakes in my marriage and my relationship, I take responsibility for that, but I suppose my post seriously reflects what I want.

Thank you.

RE: why do we divorce

Night SF.

I am pooped.

RE: why do we divorce

wink

RE: why do we divorce

Well, no operating on babies in that post. I am losing the will; to live.

You did say radical, it is more than radical, in my eyes.

I agree, it should be law to go to mediation service, the service is there, you can be ordered to go, but I think it should be made law to attend mediation.

So, we part on an even keel.

You sleep well lovely and thanks for a great debate!

hug cheers

RE: What are the Rules of Dating?

He has nowhere to go with it, Indy.

Zee, hug you are so lovely, you deserve so much more.

Really you do.

In my view. Not the date, the five men, it is the fact that she is telling you all.

I find it hard to believe.

RE: What are the Rules of Dating?

Oh go on I dare you.

Zee, I like you, and you can do what the hell you like, but to me, the whole thing sounds laughable.

If she was 18 I could understand it better, but this woman is my age almost, I mean I like a flirt, but I would never dream of doing this, in telling them, if I have a couple dates which I do not at the moment, then fine, but I would not be advertising it.

I would run a mile Zee.

But that is me.

RE: What are the Rules of Dating?

So five guys, have all agreed to date this woman, and she has been honest, (bless her) and told you, that all the others guys know about each other? Now women can be stupid, especially if they have a bit of low self esteem, they do silly things. ]

But, professor my question is this, one silly woman, FIVE stupid men, who all AGREED to this?

I lived in the US, is this how you do things out there?

RE: why do we divorce

Oh bless you.

Hello lovely.

conversing

RE: why do we divorce

Who are you talking to Lonely?

Me or my friend Phoenix?

We are great friends you know?

So do not worry.

Aren't we darling?

heart wings

RE: No more bears......

Well that is a relief.

I thought it was, but I thought I had better check.

RE: why do we divorce

Oh darling, comfort no apology necessary.

RE: why do we divorce

I agree that there are far too many people in the world, but butchering babies is not the answer.

Contraception is!

Sterilsation, educate children and parents.

For the life in me, M, I just cannot comprehend what you are saying! Especially the bold statement, how the hell is that going to solve the problem of divorce. Again putting children through unecessary surgery is not the answer, addressing the problem with the family law court is.

Christ you will have the NSPCC after you.

I have seen some different views on here, but you cannot be serious.

Have you been drinking?

RE: why do we divorce

I said similar at the top of the thread.

But there were challenges, which you know I love. rolling on the floor laughing

RE: why do we divorce

I do not think there is an overall number one reason.

I think adultry and financial issues are the main reasons, but there are many other reasons too, people do have amicable divorces.

RE: No more bears......

I cannot believe I have read that, least of all from you Ocee.

RE: why do we divorce

Well I was the earner, my ex hubby worked part time.

I disagree with your theory.

Putting babies under the knife, you will get slaughtered for that!

Not all men shirk responsibilities.

I know lots of men who are greeat dads, and there are plenty here, Airliner and Stressfree to mention two.

Plus mny ex, he is a great dad. To our children.

You are being cynical and bitter because of your situation, you know it.

Deny it, and your volleyball team are cancelled.

professor

RE: This is a waste of my time, online dateing.

Mastic

See my rant about it in the divorce thread.

banana

RE: No more bears......

80% of Americans do not have passports M.

They do not have to leave the country, they have all climates.

RE: why do we divorce

Well, I always knew you would.

hug

RE: why do we divorce

Yes, but then and I am sorry guys, why do children work it out, people always say that to me, and said it to me, I don't want my children to work anything out, I want them to have a bealthy balanced realtionship with both their parents. Not take them back and do exactly the same t them all over again.

My ex husband did alot of emotional damage to my cjhidren, it took me alot of heartache to bering them back to the country and to begin unburdening them and showing them that I wanted them to be with us both.

hrt4lse, I know it is easy for you to write this, easier than it is to say it probably, but I know exactly where you are and also where you have been.

Yes they are adults, they have been brainwashed and alienated against you and that is so wrong.

Cruel to them and denying them the right to have a relationship with their mother.

I hope one day that they come home.

Keep writing to them.

Keep your arms, heart and sofa open for them.

hug

RE: why do we divorce

Why the male child?

RE: why do we divorce

I am deeply sorry to hear that hrt4lse, that saddens me.

Horrible isn't it, I have been there, I managed to recover them.

RE: No more bears......

Oh no, they harbour dust and just bloody irritate me.

I love flowers, but a real act of love is cokking a meal for your man, or he for you, doing the laundry, rubbing his head, his feet, running a bath and pouring him a beer, while you chat to him in the bath.

Flowers, teddy bears, all inanimate objects, bears gather dust and flowers die, I love flowers and am happy with them, but they die.

dunno

RE: why do we divorce

What took you?

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