Yes, Hiroshima was a bit of a shocker for me too when I found out about it - in a way, I am glad that I was protected from all of this in my childhood but that doesnt imply that I think children should be protected thus. When I did start to explore all these atrocities I was quickly running down the road of discovering cause and effect - that journey has served me well.
By the time my own children were at school they commonly were doing projects on such issues - what are the words........... Lest We Forget.............
Much of this stuff was still under the official secrets act when I was at school - I left at the the age of 15 in 1969, pretty well versed in the Romans and Greeks etc but of modern history I knew nothing much.
When I started looking into all this for myself I found it most heartbreaking - mans inhumanity to man - sort of thing, it left me pretty traumatised and I was around 20 by this time.
I dont think the warnings inherrent in all of this are particularly releveant or undicative of any particular nation but rather of how cruel people can be to each other when they are only considering their own interests.
Ive taken ages building this wall of protection round myself and am in no rush to undo all the benefits it affords me - if somebody wants to rush me its a bit of a red flag
its a bit scarry sticking it out on the taking it slow thing but I have done it the other way round and that never got me anywhere either.
'Friends with benefits' is ok but has never lasted for me so this time round Im giving the taking time to get to know him really well option a run for its money.
Slowly building a knowledge of how the other person ticks, their likes and dislikes, views and opinions shows not only respect but is also a built in self protection model too
I think it shows respect when a guy wants to take it slow and I think it shows great potential when both parties want to take it slow - act in haste and repent at leisure as they say
I dont really have a big carbon footprint cos I dont have a car but its energy saving things that count isnt it? such as using heating and air con as little as possible - turning down the thermostat on the washing machine etc, low energy light bulbs - i have those too - I do what i can
I never rode without gloves again and wasnt driving when the helmet incident happened but I have to admit - there is a single track road nearby, very bendy and hilly, and on a day like Dknew is describing, in fact it was really hot - i just had to have a go wiht no helmet, it was very nice - in fact it was an idyllic day. I parked at a view point and thought I was seeing things - about 15 hot air balloons went sailing by - a nice memory that one - I miss my little bikette
I came off one time and had no gloves on - what a mess I made of the skin on my hands
another time, before crash helmets were compulsary, I thankfully had mine on - it saved my life that day - it cracked right down the side - lucky it wasnt my skull
Ive decided on a sober weekend or believe me I would be toasting your happy day - I wonder if theres an emoticon for water - I raise my water in your honour
Gilly, it is a right royal pain in the neck here - they stop at 7 - 30 so its taxis after that and into the nearest big town, the last is at around 5pm out of there.
I come from inner Manchester originally and although I have been here 12 yrs or so it is still hard to get used to the enforced staying in - a taxi is easily 15£ - I miss the all night buses for sure but not the city bustle - great to visit but thats all.
sounds like you had a heck of an eventful journey home
I was so good doing the shopping today, bought no cakes or chocolate so gave myself 10 out of 10 - but I have just finished a piece of chocolate fudge cake that my neighbour brought round for me
RE: look into my eyes
Great poem DanI'm not a heartless person but my advice - and I have no idea who wrote it is to..............
pick yourself up, dust yourself down and start all over again