Married one and it didn't show until after a car accident. I am sure the stress of the accident facilitated the onset but she was right on schedule (early to mid thirties). It was the ride from hell for me but she seemed to be "dancing on the rings of Saturn" and to cut a long story short, she had a psychotic break and got homicidal not suicidal. She kicked me out of the house and after coming down from that mania she confessed that she was afraid she would kill me in my sleep. Probably the nicest thing anyone has ever done for me (pushing me away and saving my life). Been there got the tshirt, hat, underwear, socks and necktie...don't ever want to go near it again thanks.
My favorite Dave Allen quote "In the beginning there was nothing and the Lord said Let There Be Light and the was still nothing, but youse could see it".
They earned the right to be there with their lives...leave em be
Clean up the garbage definitely but also try and bring some accountability to those who left it. If it can be determined whose it is (identification) then their portion of the bill should be presented for the clean up.
If he took things out of context then he didn't understand your sense of humour in the first place...sounds like a jealous or possessive trait beginning to rear it's ugly head. Better to find out earlier than later. From what I've read you are a terrific gal and I enjoy your banter...keep it up.
Fate is a convenient excuse used by people who forget the choices they made earlier on.>quote
Right on...can't take the accountability out of it and stick your head in the sand (or somewhere more unpleasant). We learn by our mistakes or we repeat them until we do.
So sorry to hear that Morgan...where is home? You are among friends who care here and our thoughts and wishes go out to you. I hope something works out but if not I am sure she knows that you would be with her if you could. Hang in there.
I enjoy my own company but also like the company of others (in smaller groups or one on one). I think that it has more to do with chemistry than standards. If the chemistry is there then you are willing to overlook imperfections because the whole picture is really what attracts you (attitude, demeanor and outlook). Even in a relationship I require some personal time and I think that is fairly common of most people.
After quickly looking over your profile, the one thing that I can comment on is that women (mostly) are attracted to confidence. Statements like "kinda working on becoming a police officer" are a bit wishy washy and don't represent you well. Just "working on becoming a police officer" (which is a noble profession by the way) is a much better way to put it. There are some very good women on here and well worth you effort. But like that "other" site there are some nutbars as well so be careful and watch the spammers. Good luck Viper...you will find her.
Good for you...24 years for me and life has never been so good. Others may be responsible for our problems and pain but we are responsible for our solutions.
I don't think that we would feel the impact...adrenylin pushes the soul out of the body before impact and you view it from on high...many an accident victim has identified that experience because they have a few moments were they know they are going to crash and feel like they are above it...comforting in a way
When I reached the point in my life as a practising alcoholic that alcohol no longer worked for me and I was caught between a rock and a hard place (addicted to alcohol through 15 years of daily drinking and the alcohol no longer letting me seek the numbness I required to function even on such a minimal level) I considered suicide. Then I reached out for help and it was there. I had hit bottom and life was unacceptable under those terms. Even today if my quality of life was to diminish beyond my acceptance I would opt to check out. The way I would do it would be to find a very high place and go out with a hand full of throttle (motorcycle). What a ride. The wonderful thing about believing in reincarnation...I'll be back...thanks Arnold.
Normally I reply out of courtesy but if it is obviously a scammer or someone way out of my age group then I don't encourage them. "Management reserves the right to refuse service to a customer". It is always flattering but I was born at night...it just wasn't last night.
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RE: Would you date someone who has Bipolar?
Married one and it didn't show until after a car accident. I am sure the stress of the accident facilitated the onset but she was right on schedule (early to mid thirties). It was the ride from hell for me but she seemed to be "dancing on the rings of Saturn" and to cut a long story short, she had a psychotic break and got homicidal not suicidal. She kicked me out of the house and after coming down from that mania she confessed that she was afraid she would kill me in my sleep. Probably the nicest thing anyone has ever done for me (pushing me away and saving my life). Been there got the tshirt, hat, underwear, socks and necktie...don't ever want to go near it again thanks.