Maybe you don't really like hetero couples? I dunno dude. If it's not envy or longing for the relationship that they have...maybe you have some sort of "ulterior motive". I'm not suggesting or implying that you are not hetero......just my thoughts.
I'd ask you to expand on that. I can't think of a nice way to tell a gal...."Hey you are lousy in bed" or "You just don't bathe enough for me"...or "you just don't move me".....you can think of something nice to say...but, in the end, aren't you just masking the truth?
Isn't that better than...."You know what...I just can't stand being around you any longer...you annoy the hell out of me...and you are a Lousy lover" ?????
Get you some fresh meat and see if it doesn't change your outlook a little bit.
You did the right thing ( I assume ) for 11 years....try something new and see if it doesn't work for you. I was married for 11 years...before my FIRST divorce....Strange is GREAT....LMAO....
Temptation got the best of him? Sounds like you want to forgive him? Now he's someone elses' best? Sounds like you still want to forgive him. Not sure the direction you want is the direction you will get here.
Remember, my new friend....the best way.....to get over an old lover...is to get under a new one.
You need my love baby oh so bad You're not the only one I've ever had And if I say I wanna set you free Don't you know you'll be in misery They call me Doctor Love They call me Doctor Love (Calling Doctor Love) I've got the cure you're thinkin' of (Calling Doctor Love) And even though I'm full of sin In the end you'll let me in You'll let me through, there's nothin' you can do You need my lovin' don't you know it's true So will you please get on your knees There are no bills, there are no fees Baby I know what your problem is The first step of the cure is a KISS So call me Doctor Love I am your doctor of love (Calling Doctor Love) I've got the cure you're thinkin' of (Calling Doctor Love) They call me Doctor Love I am the doctor of love (Calling Doctor Love) I've got the cure you're thinkin' of (Calling Doctor Love) They call me Doctor Love! They call me Doctor Love I am the doctor of love (Calling Doctor Love) I've got the cure you're thinkin' of (Calling Doctor Love)
I can be like Doctor J...and hit the skyhook from the top of the key....LMFAO..........
You need my love baby oh so bad You're not the only one I've ever had And if I say I wanna set you free Don't you know you'll be in misery They call me Doctor Love They call me Doctor Love (Calling Doctor Love) I've got the cure you're thinkin' of (Calling Doctor Love) And even though I'm full of sin In the end you'll let me in You'll let me through, there's nothin' you can do You need my lovin' don't you know it's true So will you please get on your knees There are no bills, there are no fees Baby I know what your problem is The first step of the cure is a KISS So call me Doctor Love I am your doctor of love (Calling Doctor Love) I've got the cure you're thinkin' of (Calling Doctor Love) They call me Doctor Love I am the doctor of love (Calling Doctor Love) I've got the cure you're thinkin' of (Calling Doctor Love) They call me Doctor Love! They call me Doctor Love I am the doctor of love (Calling Doctor Love) I've got the cure you're thinkin' of (Calling Doctor Love)
Most nice guys are nice guys because they have been brought up to be that way. Either by emulating someone that they admire, or by being the polar opposite of the "father figure" in his life. (that's my case) I've said this a million times over the years, nice guys finish last. Always have, always will. Part of being nice, apparently, stems from a lack of a solid backbone. Sometimes you gotta fight when you're a man (credit Kenny Rogers) Going along to get along will get you a last place finish. Not having courage of your conviction, Last Place again. I guess you should lose the "nice guy" mentality...and concentrate on being a GOOD MAN, instead.
RE: Help me understand myself..... Seriously
Maybe you don't really like hetero couples? I dunno dude. If it's not envy or longing for the relationship that they have...maybe you have some sort of "ulterior motive". I'm not suggesting or implying that you are not hetero......just my thoughts.