Sojourner Forum Posts (472)

Has anyone ever recognized someone else they know on this site?

What did you do over the summer??

That sounds exciting!!

RE: Secret Life

I wouldn't call this a life, lol. It isn't secret from close friends. Although I rarely share any details, and they don't seem all that interested anyway, if I meet someone, I tell them about it and how things are going.

I would like to have a secret life, I think, for a while anyway. It would be cool. Like take on another persona and do stuff I wouldn't ordinarily do. Just not sure I have time for it.....

Has anyone ever recognized someone else they know on this site?

Yikes!

Has anyone ever recognized someone else they know on this site?

Has anyone ever recognized someone else they know on this site?

Are you being difficult I mean, someone you know in your daily life, like someone from work or your town or something. And no, actually, this isn't like real life--it's like cyberlife...imo anyway...

RE: dating and women

OP: Women do like nice men. They like men with a positive, upbeat attitude; men who like women, all women, average women. One thing that I think happens is that men all write to the most attractive ladies and ignore the average women. So if you get ignored, it maybe because you are facing too much competition. Or it may be that your presentation is weak. Maybe you need a profile review or an attitude tune up. Most of the hook ups that I've heard about are between average people. And always remember that like attracts like: read profiles and find someone who is a good, realistic, match for you. Don't just respond to a photo.

RE: dating and women

Right. Whining and complaining is more like Mr. Collins And we want Mr. Darcy

RE: dating and women

I must concur.

RE: dating and women

Yep

RE: I know the three reasons why a...........

If they will just tell you to butt out, I'd not bother.

RE: I know the three reasons why a...........

If you think 1) they would listen 2) it would make any difference 3) they won't be upset with you for interferring then go for it. Why not? If they are not going to listen, then it is just an exercise in futility. Why put yourself through the aggravation?

RE: How important are looks to you when looking for a date?

I need be be attracted, find someone physically appealing, but traditionally handsome? No. Not necessary. How I feel about him, his personality and character, that is what is most important, by far.

RE: It is so easy to......

Interesting reply, not sure if it addresses rng's post....

What I was thinking is that rng's post is venting. Okay, people are annoying. People often don't want to do or see things my way. I have lot to put up with. I get piss'd off and aggravated. Then I vent a bit and get over it and move on. So, I hope you feel better soon, rng.

RE: Do aborted fetuses go to heaven?

This is one of the most bizarre debates I've ever been in. No logic, no reason, no sense at all. Time to find other ways to entertain myself.

RE: Do aborted fetuses go to heaven?

Crime and punishment are not religious, they are legal and social issues, not religion unless you are talking about divine punishment, which means a god, which means proving a god exists. You continually use the word religion: the term generally means a belief in God, in the divine, in heaven. What do you think it means? What exactly are you trying to prove?

RE: Do aborted fetuses go to heaven?

All this shows is a list of people who wrote about religion. Where is the empirical evidence that there is a God? A heaven? Hun, you just don't make any sense.

RE: Do aborted fetuses go to heaven?

Which proves exactly what about religions theories?

RE: Do aborted fetuses go to heaven?

Oh my...that is something else, that is...

RE: Do aborted fetuses go to heaven?

Which psychologists and anthropologists are those then? What empirical evidence is religion based on?

RE: Do aborted fetuses go to heaven?

Religion uses zero empirical evidence.

RE: who are the biggest threat to world security

Oh, going to have to write in a qualifier to my last post on this.

Who are the biggest threat to world security?

STUPID HUMAN BEINGS

Has anyone ever recognized someone else they know on this site?

I am really surprised I'm the only one.

RE: Do aborted fetuses go to heaven?

Science is based on empirical evidence. Religion is based on belief. The two was of understanding life are on opposite ends of the spectrum of reasoning, logic and perception.

RE: WILL YOU MARRY ON CONTRACT (CONTRACT MARRIAGE)

All marriages are a contract, if they are legal marriages.

Do you need to be lovers first before you know he/she is the one for you?

RE: given a free air ticket? do i take it???

Villa schmilla.... I've an invitation from a guy who has his own island...You're gonna have to up the ante to get my attention...

RE: given a free air ticket? do i take it???

RE: who are the biggest threat to world security

Well, I voted for Simon Cowell. But actually, that's because you didn't have the real answer. The real answer, ready? Is HUMAN BEINGS.....

RE: given a free air ticket? do i take it???

Just wondering...are you sure about the type of man this is and his intentions. Some men expect a women to 'put out' after they buy them dinner, if he is buying a round trip air ticket, what is he going to expect?