SojournerSojourner Forum Posts (472)

RE: Do older men make BETTER LOVERS!

The women know. I wrote my first post before I had read these others.

RE: Do older men make BETTER LOVERS!

I think it is the man, not the age. One of my best lovers, some years ago, was around 30. The other was 41. Like so many other things, generalizing is misleading. I doubt these men were exceptions to a rule that men have to be 'older' to be good lovers. It's the man, not the age.

RE: Prior Marriages

Two divorces is the max for me as far as considering someone as a potential partner. I have two close friends/relatives who have been married 4+ times. Knowing them and the whys and wherefores of their multiple marriages has created in me a strong aversion to taking seriously, as a long term partner, anyone who has been married more than twice.

RE: The Great Republican Candidates ....

From a completely bi-partisan stance, it occurs that it is an odd aspect of American politics that the new president has only been in office 6-7 months and you are already looking for a replacement, after spending how many years of campaigning for this election? Why not trying working with what you've got for a while?

RE: Career choice second time around...

I would choose my lifestyle, and my specific career makes my lifestyle possible, so yes, I probably would.

RE: Which do you prefer?

I don't know about Bulgarian men, but I know a couple from Hungary --- very nice, attractive and great senses of humor...

RE: Mixed race and dating?

Agree with this and also agree with lusciousmile and heatherhuntsman.

You are attractive and I don't find anything wrong with your profile. It may just be location. Are you doing searches on CS for women in more metropolitan areas?

RE: Which do you prefer?

I like men who are funny, have fire and yet are subtle, are passionate (about many things....so I would say all of the above (except the yogurtconfused ) and more, but these things have nothing to do with nationality and all to do with the individual man.

RE: Do men like clever women?

Also interpreting the word clever as intelligent: In my experience, I've met men who don't like intelligent women, or who only like them to a point. That is, a man may be attracted to an intelligent woman, as long as she isn't more intelligent than he is. I have met, dated and been involved with men who like intelligent women, including men, like arealguy who find intelligent women a real turn on. Interestingly, many men who are turned on by intelligent women don't care if she is more intelligent than themselves. These are men who are secure in themselves, secure in their manhood.

RE: what's ur 1st impression about me

Very pretty.

RE: Forced sterlization....

Forced sterilzation of all mals at birth is, as I'm sure you realize, very extreme. Not a reasonable solution to the problem of over-population and other social issues. Some EU countries have zero population growth, Austria I know does. What are they doing right? I think education is the solution. I believe the higher the level of literacy in a country, the lower the population growth.

RE: Not Feeling very European right now !!

Actually, the European threads look much more interesting and the International ones look rather facile. Guess it's a matter of preference. Also, I rarely see an interesting thread on the UK forums...just saying...

RE: Would you tell?

Yes, I agree. I'd want my friend to tell me.

RE: is it perfectly fine ????

Is someone is not happy in their marriage, they should get a divorce, then they can date anyone they want (except a married person).

RE: is it perfectly fine ????

Exactly. OP, if you were the wife, would it be okay with you if your husband dated other women?

RE: Would you tell?

If I knew, absolutely knew for certain, and it was a good friend, yes I would. Primarily because if it were me whose partner was cheating, I'd want my friend to tell me. Also, if I knew about it but didn't tell my friend, I'd feel as I was also conspiring against her/him. I realize in doing so I'd chance losing my friend, but I think it's more important for her/him to have that information than to protect myself. So, if necessary, I'd sacrifice my friend's goodwill toward me, if necessary.

RE: is it perfectly fine ????

No, it isn't okay for married people to date. When people get married, they make a promise to be faithful to their spouse and to their marriage vows. If someone doesn't want to be married, they should get a divorce. It's not okay for any married person to date, and it's not okay for single people to date married people. Those are my ethics anyway.

RE: Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

Probably not. My take on unemployment is that you can always find something to do, even if it means a lower status, lower paying job. I'd be uncomfortable with someone who was just sitting around collecting unemployment.

RE: Existence of God v Science

I think most people know that there are scientists who believe in God and manage to reconcile their scientific understandings to their spiritual beliefs. I don't see anything new or compelling in your post.

RE: Existence of God v Science

RE: who likes obama ?

I don't think the OP mean like in the sense of liking our friends, but in the sense of agreeing with what he's doing, how he is handling things, his policies, etc.

I think he's doing well. I am a liberal, so his and Clinton's policies and perspectives usually coincide with mine. I think that Obama has done a huge amount in improving America's image around the world, which will give us more actual power than using military might. Yes, I 'like' him. thumbs up

RE: Reading a womans signals

It's very simple. Talk to her. Without communication, you have no real relationship. Don't try to play the game of signals, yours, her's, the milkman's. Just communicate with language: human beings are lucky (I think?) in that we have language. roll eyes

RE: Sarkozy bans burqa wearing.

Well, for part of it I was living for 2 years in Turkey and 2 in the UAE, so I know a bit about this subject. handshake

RE: Sarkozy bans burqa wearing.

Uh, all you would see beneath a see through bhurka is a women dressed in ordinary street clothing. They just wear normal clothing underneath: they are fully clothed. roll eyes

RE: Sarkozy bans burqa wearing.

Good point. This discussion and anti-burqa attitude is fueled by fear and dislike of Islam which is really the result of behavior if militant Islmaists who are the result of Western policies in Palestine.

RE: Sarkozy bans burqa wearing.

So, bebe, you were wrong.

RE: Sarkozy bans burqa wearing.

No they are not. Especially when the action is an expression of thought!!!

RE: Sarkozy bans burqa wearing.

thumbs up thumbs up

RE: Would you date someone with much less formal education than you?

True. At the same time there are some very wise educated people and very stupid uneducated people. Intelligence isn't related to formal education, but I have found that intelligent people who are not formally educated are self educated. They read a lot, observe and experience life, and have nurtured and developed their intellect.

RE: Would you date someone with much less formal education than you?

Agree. thumbs up

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