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RE: given a free air ticket? do i take it???

You live in Washington, DC. Which America is he flying you to? confused

RE: Do aborted fetuses go to heaven?

There is no heaven. Problem solved. smoking

RE: Would you date me?

If you want people to not be mean, don't make yourself vulnerable. Works in the dating world too. thumbs up

What did you do over the summer??

Also sounds very nice.

What did you do over the summer??

That does sound pretty wonderful. thumbs up

RE: I think it should be against the law to be......

The irony is that if the teacher wasn't boring, the student wouldn't yawn. So, it's pretty ironic if the teacher punishes the student for yawning, when it is the teacher who is the reason for the yawning. professor

RE: I think it should be against the law to be......

I had a teacher in high school who made it against the rules to yawn in class. There's some irony in there somewhere. confused

RE: What annoy`s you the most???

I suppose what I don't like is men who write to me who haven't read my profile. Why are they writing? What's the point of trying to connect with someone who may have absolutely nothing in common with you?

RE: I think it should be against the law to be......

Too many things are against the law now. It should be against the law to make more laws before we review the ones we have and chuck out those that are not effective.

RE: "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" what do you think?

Intelligence makes a man who is not traditionally handsome very appealing and attractive.

What did you do over the summer??

NSM?dunno

RE: With all due respect

Excellent point, there are paid sites that are just as useless, more so in fact!!roll eyes

RE: With all due respect

I think the message is less to him than to other women, at large....anger, revenge, hurt..getting even as much as possible...

RE: With all due respect

There is seldom or ever only one truth. So, you experience might be that when you speak your truth, people get pissed off. BTW, this post is my truth and might piss you off.

RE: can anyone tell me why good men get hurt

Nice people, good people, sensitive people get hurt more easily than those who are a bit harder. However, also people who are too needy, too dependent, and who choose the object of their affection less carefully tend to get hurt more often.

RE: To chat or not

With the right person, I have a lot of fun instant messaging and have done it for hours at a time with the same person. I'm a fast typist and they need to be too.

Do you need to be lovers first before you know he/she is the one for you?

Can you fall in love and be sure that he or she is the one you want for your partner, to spend you life with before you have become lovers? Or do you need to experience physical intimacy before knowing for certain this is the right 'one'?

RE: What is your best way to flirt?

I've had that happen. It general has the opposite effect of what you want--unless the lady is already --- and I mean: all ready....

RE: What is your best way to flirt?

None of the above. Joking and teasing, smiling. But generally I am not a flirt and never initiate flirting. However, will respond to flirting, if the man is not unattractive....flirty batting

Woodstock Generation

I think that we of that generation had a lot of fun, most of us. Some had a very bad time. Those young men who went to Vietnam certainly had a rough time and many, of those who came home alive, never recovered, I knew some of them, including a cousin who came back from Nam addicted to drugs and alcohol and eventually, accidently, set his house on fire and died of smoke enhalation. (He was still quite young.) I do think, however, that the cultural changes that happened during that time have affected us greatly, for the better and in some ways, for the worse, but definitely had a very big effect.

RE: Nudism and Modesty

This is a very good point.

RE: Nudism and Modesty

I've been of the beaches of several Western European countries over the past few years, on beaches that are not designated especially for nudisum and have seen nudisum, though limited. I think it is not illegal everywhere.

RE: Nudism and Modesty

I've been spending a lot of time in areas where Europeans from all over Europe, east and west, go for holiday. I'm basing it on that. Perhaps when they are on their home turf and 'everyone' is doing it, they feel freer about it, but not in areas where they are around others who aren't doing it. Also, I've lived in German, and West Germans are freer about nudity than many other Europeans. Your post says people from the East, whereas it might be more precise to specific East Germans.

RE: How do you make a person stop following you?

If they go to the same church, I would tell her to talk to the pastor and ask the pastor to talk to him and counsel him. Someone who this guy respects needs to make it clear that his attentions are unwanted and disturbing.

What did you do over the summer??

What did you do over the summer??

Its back to school time folks, remember in grade school - your first day back from holidays, and you had to write a "what I did over the summer holidays" story?? Lets hear em...

I spent time in the south of Europe, getting lots of sun, for a change. laugh

50 WAYS TO LEAVE YOUR LOVER

What are the best ways to end a relationship?

Has anyone ever recognized someone else they know on this site?

I have and didn't say anything. He's not married or in a relationship, as far as I know.

Have you ever recognized someone you know in RL on this site? What did you do.

A vast wasteland

To me, I think it is how you use it (television or the internet). So the idea of 'when it is good, nothing is better' or 'when it is bad, nothing is worse' really applies to my use of either medium. I can waste a lot of time on the internet. If I had television, which I don't now, I could waste a lot of time watching mindless stuff. Or I can use both productively.

A vast wasteland

Is the internet a 'Vast Wasteland'?

The Wasteland Speech was given by Federal Communications Commission (FCC) chairman Newton N. Minow on May 9, 1961:

"When television is good, nothing — not the theater, not the magazines or newspapers — nothing is better. But when television is bad, nothing is worse......"

If television is a vast wasteland, what about the internet? Are both vast wastelands? What is the positive value of the internet?

Here for the forums only

Here for the forums only ....if you've put this on your profile,
what does it mean to you?

Found your one and only?
Taking a break from dating?
Met someone but just seeing where it goes?
Given up?

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