Englishman55OPSalisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
I have now been on this site for 8 months and have, in reality got very little back.
I was told the place to actually find someone was in the forums.... post a comment..... let us know who you are, and let us get to know you better..... but that's a fallacy.
Look at the forums when someone new comes along and introduces themselves to you .... we have another 3 pages of people saying hello, welcome to the nut house and sooner or later you will change you posative attitude to a negative one !
The majority of people on the forums are only here for some banter.... to make themselves feel good.. which explains why so many who participate are either married or in a relationship..... sorry, but I thought the idea of a singles site was for SINGLES !
I am also getting rather tired of people saying to me..... you have not been on this site long enough to have an opinion..... how long do I have to be here.... or do you just want to drag me down to the lonely hearts level.
I have met some really good woman here, the number of which I can count on one hand....... That does not say much for an international site boasting so many members, or are the members so shallow, they can not actually allow themselves to be human !!
JMHO !!!
I welcome your honest opinions to my comments, just don't expect me to react.....I know you too well. !!
Englishman55: I have now been on this site for 8 months and have, in reality got very little back.
I was told the place to actually find someone was in the forums.... post a comment..... let us know who you are, and let us get to know you better..... but that's a fallacy.
Look at the forums when someone new comes along and introduces themselves to you .... we have another 3 pages of people saying hello, welcome to the nut house and sooner or later you will change you posative attitude to a negative one !
The majority of people on the forums are only here for some banter.... to make themselves feel good.. which explains why so many who participate are either married or in a relationship..... sorry, but I thought the idea of a singles site was for SINGLES !
I am also getting rather tired of people saying to me..... you have not been on this site long enough to have an opinion..... how long do I have to be here.... or do you just want to drag me down to the lonely hearts level.
I have met some really good woman here, the number of which I can count on one hand....... That does not say much for an international site boasting so many members, or are the members so shallow, they can not actually allow themselves to be human !!
JMHO !!!
I welcome your honest opinions to my comments, just don't expect me to react.....I know you too well. !!
i've met a couple really nice women on here, and they never do the forums, i think mite be the key my brother, give that a try. its worked to some extent for me.
Englishman55OPSalisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
Please do excuse one ommision I made in that post..... I have got to know two really good guys who know their mind and are not afraid to speak it..... J.D and "Seek" Good on you guys. keep it up..... not sure I can, but the that just me !
Englishman55: I have now been on this site for 8 months and have, in reality got very little back.
I was told the place to actually find someone was in the forums.... post a comment..... let us know who you are, and let us get to know you better..... but that's a fallacy.
Look at the forums when someone new comes along and introduces themselves to you .... we have another 3 pages of people saying hello, welcome to the nut house and sooner or later you will change you posative attitude to a negative one !
The majority of people on the forums are only here for some banter.... to make themselves feel good.. which explains why so many who participate are either married or in a relationship..... sorry, but I thought the idea of a singles site was for SINGLES !
I am also getting rather tired of people saying to me..... you have not been on this site long enough to have an opinion..... how long do I have to be here.... or do you just want to drag me down to the lonely hearts level.
I have met some really good woman here, the number of which I can count on one hand....... That does not say much for an international site boasting so many members, or are the members so shallow, they can not actually allow themselves to be human !!
JMHO !!!
I welcome your honest opinions to my comments, just don't expect me to react.....I know you too well. !!
I think you're doing great and obviously several ladies enjoy your posts and quite like you.
Now is the time to persue these lovely ladies by emailing them, then talking to them, then meeting them and then finally doing naughty things to them........ you've got to put the REAL effort in now that you've done the groundwork!
Englishman55: I have now been on this site for 8 months and have, in reality got very little back.
I was told the place to actually find someone was in the forums.... post a comment..... let us know who you are, and let us get to know you better..... but that's a fallacy.
Look at the forums when someone new comes along and introduces themselves to you .... we have another 3 pages of people saying hello, welcome to the nut house and sooner or later you will change you posative attitude to a negative one !
The majority of people on the forums are only here for some banter.... to make themselves feel good.. which explains why so many who participate are either married or in a relationship..... sorry, but I thought the idea of a singles site was for SINGLES !
I am also getting rather tired of people saying to me..... you have not been on this site long enough to have an opinion..... how long do I have to be here.... or do you just want to drag me down to the lonely hearts level.
I have met some really good woman here, the number of which I can count on one hand....... That does not say much for an international site boasting so many members, or are the members so shallow, they can not actually allow themselves to be human !!
JMHO !!!
I welcome your honest opinions to my comments, just don't expect me to react.....I know you too well. !!
I hope I'm not on your hit list.
As my parents use to tell me and my brothers when were growing up.That you get exactly out of something exactly what you put into it.
Haven't you ever heard that Rome and romance were built in one day?
bodleing: Maybe this is why the aussies call us whinging poms.
............. Hey have you ever heard a Aussie 'Woman' Whine......They will out do the 'Poms' any day...... ... .... .....Now I will cop some 'flak' on this one.....Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad Boy J.D.........Again....
bodleingGreater Manchester, England UK13,810 posts
virgiomonkey: ............. Hey have you ever heard a Aussie 'Woman' Whine......They will out do the 'Poms' any day...... ... .... .....Now I will cop some 'flak' on this one.....Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad Boy J.D.........Again.... J.D
Englishman55: I welcome your honest opinions to my comments, just don't expect me to react.....I know you too well. !!
You have made some good points but I'd like to consider it a give and take just as it is out there, you know, the real world. It's how we express ourselves that will either draw good attention or bad. You're aware of the ole saying "Mood reflects Mood." If we express pity, we'll find it. And if we express happiness, we'll also find it. Choose your expression and the same-likeness will choose you.
Englishman55: I have now been on this site for 8 months and have, in reality got very little back.
I was told the place to actually find someone was in the forums.... post a comment..... let us know who you are, and let us get to know you better..... but that's a fallacy.
Look at the forums when someone new comes along and introduces themselves to you .... we have another 3 pages of people saying hello, welcome to the nut house and sooner or later you will change you posative attitude to a negative one !
The majority of people on the forums are only here for some banter.... to make themselves feel good.. which explains why so many who participate are either married or in a relationship..... sorry, but I thought the idea of a singles site was for SINGLES !
I am also getting rather tired of people saying to me..... you have not been on this site long enough to have an opinion..... how long do I have to be here.... or do you just want to drag me down to the lonely hearts level.
I have met some really good woman here, the number of which I can count on one hand....... That does not say much for an international site boasting so many members, or are the members so shallow, they can not actually allow themselves to be human !!
JMHO !!!
I welcome your honest opinions to my comments, just don't expect me to react.....I know you too well. !!
Don't think you should depend on the forums to meet someone. While you may meet someone here, there is still a limited number of women. If you are serious about meeting someone,I think you have to search profiles and write to women regularly.
Englishman55: Please do excuse one ommision I made in that post..... I have got to know two really good guys who know their mind and are not afraid to speak it..... J.D and "Seek" Good on you guys. keep it up..... not sure I can, but the that just me !
..........Well all what I say Good Sir ,you speak your 'Mind' very well indeed....and keep it up.....
saseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 Posts
saseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 posts
virgiomonkey: ............. Hey have you ever heard a Aussie 'Woman' Whine......They will out do the 'Poms' any day...... ... .... .....Now I will cop some 'flak' on this one.....Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad Boy J.D.........Again.... J.D
Englishman55OPSalisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
somechick: I hope I'm not on your hit list. As my parents use to tell me and my brothers when were growing up.That you get exactly out of something exactly what you put into it.
Haven't you ever heard that Rome and romance were built in one day?
Hey Somechick,
You are right.... you are not on my list... you are one of the good ladies out there.... I have always looked with interest at you comments and have to say you are a genuine lady on this site.
You are right.... you are not on my list... you are one of the good ladies out there.... I have always looked with interest at you comments and have to say you are a genuine lady on this site.
...................Very True.....a very genuine and a very sincere Lady she is.......
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I was told the place to actually find someone was in the forums.... post a comment..... let us know who you are, and let us get to know you better..... but that's a fallacy.
Look at the forums when someone new comes along and introduces themselves to you
.... we have another 3 pages of people saying hello, welcome to the nut house and sooner or later you will change you posative attitude to a negative one !
The majority of people on the forums are only here for some banter.... to make themselves feel good.. which explains why so many who participate are either married or in a relationship..... sorry, but I thought the idea of a singles site was for SINGLES !
I am also getting rather tired of people saying to me..... you have not been on this site long enough to have an opinion..... how long do I have to be here.... or do you just want to drag me down to the lonely hearts level.
I have met some really good woman here, the number of which I can count on one hand....... That does not say much for an international site boasting so many members, or are the members so shallow, they can not actually allow themselves to be human !!
JMHO !!!
I welcome your honest opinions to my comments, just don't expect me to react.....I know you too well. !!