hiya riya...you always have such good threads and have a way of seeing things from both sides even if you havent always experienced the questions that you ask. Gives many something to think about...
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"I think that even if you don't disclose all your dark secrets that it's not really presenting a false face. There's always a better time to present certain ideas to people. Waiting for the best time to reveal dark secrets is the key to acceptance I think. I've seen the results of revealing them too early."
Oh i agree on disclosing them to early, theres a time for it..otherwise they might think you are crazier then you really are...
There was a time back in the day, I wore many masks to gain acceptance of who I thought ppl wanted me to be and then in the end losing the person I really was. I was a self described chameleon and a damn good one if I dont say myself...but life can be hard and learned I'm much more successful at being the real me...
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hey pentium...am doing fine, thanks. I would think she was joking as well, considering her inital post...if not am sure your tough enough to take it...
Insulting someone over their picture, no reason to...theres never really a reason to insult anyone, especially over their picture or how they look. That I agree with you on. Then again, I havent read any posts that insulted someone due to that fact or cuz of animal pics they have on their profile, maybe I just havent read the threads your referring to.
In regards tho to updated pictures...hmmmm thats an interesting topic for me this week. If a person is on the site to just be friends, I dont see any reason that old pics would matter. However, more of a concern is the people who are looking for someone and their profile pics dont match their appearance any longer. That tends to cause a problem in my eyes, unless they have made it clear on how old the pic is and how they have changed since the date of the pic. Changes do occur within 3, 5, and 10 years, whether we want to believe that or not. Why give someone an impression that you look like the posted pic, when in real you have changed...its more of false advertising, wouldnt go as far as fraud and all..if there is a seperation there. So in my opinion it does matter if your looking for a trust worthy partner or something intimate compared to a friendship. If you cant be honest about how you look, why would anyone believe anything you say. But again never a reason to insult, maybe a reason not to trust them tho JMO
i stopped returning emails to most ppl, am sure its not the best way to go..not that nice, but am thinking getting a B*TCH enough times they dont really deserve a reply..regardless if i was slow at replying...not cuz of a few jerks i dont answer anyone i dont know...so it eliminates alot of ppl...
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RE: Ghost Hunters!
again goofball....how long did u wait for it to move???