haha...have u ever really done somethig like that...i heard it hurts so much.
one time it kinda happened to me, but it was with a popsicle..my tongue stuck and i couldnt pull it off..not sure if my skin stuck to it, but gosh it hurt for days....
thanks kid....the officers took pictures last night, but the marks werent real obvious then. i will have my son take some when he gets home..thanks for the advice.
thanks to you to daniel and indy...
i put up a pic in my profile for a lil bit, til it gets on my nerves..lol
you got it mr indy...pretty much what the officer said....had i hit her as soon as she used the cue on me, would be self-defense...however due to the time i was on the floor til i got up and swung back is where my problem is..the officers were questioned my friends and others who seen it about the time line and crap....so beings that i had "that" time to gain control, which I did apparently not do..LOL...I retaliated (?)
Im really not that sorry I hit tho....sometimes I am, but mostly NOT!
Conrad your funny, dont hit ur keyboard...bad things happen when you hit..
thanks angel...yeh im not sure what their fight was over or what he said, cuz i left that area. But I dont remember seeing him after she hit me nor when we were hauled to the office. But all i remember of him he was wearing a iowa state baseball camp...(maybe had I been after him I would of soaked up more details..lol)
The way the ticket reads I have to actually go to court over this. grrrr. The cops explanation of the ticket was because I struck her back so I became more involved, then if I had just walked away from the situation.
Hey riya, yeh I did after I crawled off the floor...sounds lil funny to say it. I just know her nose was bleeding and the guard helping to clean her up.
Indy, I know your joking and ur sweet. Im thinking I shall not take any pics for sometime..enjoy the ones that are here now...
yeh thats what my friends said...I'm not a physically confrontational person, I am somewhat shocked I hit her back. I keep thinking with one punch I did good, am sure if her nose isnt broke..she has her own pain to deal with today.
Its not the physical pain that is bothering me today, its more the inner emotions of having someone hit me. lil degrading, if thats the right word, am not sure.
thanks guys/gals... I just thought maybe someone would have a logically reason for someone to jump to conclusions or to act so violently on a whim? I've been thinking, but I'm a lil one-sided at the moment so thought maybe someone would give me a clue. Nice to have friends that I can talk to...your all sweet..
Unseen mistakes or bad decisions not sure which it is yet. Doesn't really matter anymore today. I was in a bad mood most of the day yesterday and it lingered into the night. My kids had all gone to their friends to spend the night and I got restless in the house alone. I decided late in the night to join the girls at the local pool hall. We played a couple games of pool, then a guy asked me if I would be his pool partner, his other took a break. I agreed. Not long into the game, it was my shot when I heard arguing. My pool "partner" was having a heated conversation with a girl. His friends said it will be awhile, so I walked back to the girls I was originally with and picked up a new game with them. All the sudden I hear, "you b*tch", I automaticaly turned to see who was yelling at whom...and I seen out of the corner of my eye a pool cue coming at me. At that point, all I could feel was pain in my head and heard alot of screaming. Looking up from the floor, I seen her standing above me..going on about me taking her man. My friends were yelling back at her in my defense, she wasnt listening whether it be her anger or alcohol controlling her, I'm not sure. I stood up...not really comprehending what happened, I was in pain and pretty well p*ssed off at her. Had I walked away at that time, which I'm sure was the best thing to do...yeh I didnt, I punched her then proceeded to walk away. Didnt get far as the door guards got in my way. They grabbed both of us and hauled us to the managers office. I walked decently, lil foul mouthed..they had to carry her kicking and swearing. The guards let me clean up my face, as we waited for the police officers to get there. In the end, she was taken to the station for using a weapon and I was given a ticket or something and sent home. I went home in a worse mood then I left, vented here and there. Not sure what time I fell asleep, but woke up with a nasty headache and a look of death on my face. Yeh so now I'm sitting here with a black eye, cut lip and a fine of at least $125 for disorderly conduct. Thinking, I'm still not sure what happened last night...what crossed that woman's mind, to think I was after her man. Obviously I shouldnt of offered to be his pool partner, but had she only known...the only words I spoke to him was "sure" and "are we solids or strips". Women... I am one, but yet I fail to understand us. Ok am done venting for now. Gonna just lick my wounds and chalk this up to a rough night...and wait for the pissiness to settle.
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hugs...jodi