I know what you mean.. I have been on a loosing streak for some time now... but it's got to change for the better sooner or later.. in my case probably later...
sometimes it's due to choices one makes sometimes due to being in the wrong place at the wrong time ... sometimes "bad things" are found out later to have been blessings in disguise ... sometimes it's so that the person can become even better in their growth and understanding of others and their pain ... sometimes none of this is revealed until many many years later ...
yap, i am on one of those myself, it seems like, I got accused of a hit and run on 11/24/07, I was not even in the area at the time that this person is claiming, I was there for 4.5 hrs. and the driver that is claiming that i paralled parked and hit her brand new mustang front bumper, saying i left the scene of the accident. the note that was left on my windshield from supposedly this sheriff's office did not have his name, nor his id badge #, or his phone #, just the highway patrol, i called it immediately and gave them my license plate and they ran it and told me," no Kathy, we don't have any hit and run on your vehicle. so 45 days go by and I get this letter from highway patrol, I went there yesterday to talk to the officer, he would not come out to talk to me, I told him i will call his superior and will take this one all the way to the end. I won't go down for something i did not do, and I also have a witness!!! t
Bad things happen to everyone not just good people. Some just have it coming more than others. I guess I'm a strong beliver in charma. That's why I don't complain about what's happened to me, because I knoe I've wronged people in my past. Now I paying for it.
I believe in Karma myself, and from what people tell me, I would not even hurt an ant. I do believe it will come back 7 folds, and bite u in the rear(i don't know if I could say the other word on internet).
What better example of how to deal with bad things then let the good ones experience the bad things?
Bad people are living proof of how not to handle bad things. it is my opinion that most "bad people" failed to navigate their lives and choices when they encountered a Bad thing.
I will never believe as a species that bad people are just born... I will admit that some Bad people cannot change. but the operative word there is "some"
If we didn't have any storms in life...How would we grow and learn????
The good people are the ones who learn from the storms...bad people just weather the storm long enough to hold out for the next one...learning nothing along the way!!!!!!!
alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
I agree with this totally.
I've had bad things happen to me because of my bad choices, and a few that I had absolutely no culpability in. But I have grown because of them all. I have learned from my mistakes, and mostly I've learned that I can survive the pain, and that in itself makes me a stronger person, because I don't fear the worst anymore, I've already been through it.
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