a few years ago it did bother me what people really thought of me..if i was good enough on the inside or the outside or what i was lacking to find the right type of person... then i took a long, hard look at myself and realized im not that bad of a person and i needed to let my beauty I held on the inside shine through, I became a whole new woman....It was only then, when my opinion changed about myself....Where I thought it was others judging me, it was me who was the judge...I was only seeing what I thought others should see in me, I was my problem.... Now if someone doesnt like me...oh its so their problem, and im ok with that.
aawwwww keeper....i may have already tripped, it was you who picked me up with your unfailing words..dusted me off and set me straight. the secrets the keeper keeps.
oh dnew, you are such a charming man..full of the sweetest words and un-ending kindess, and a heart that yearns to love....you should never want a desperate woman, you will never get the greatness you deserve. Your such a good friend to me, thank you...
True love of course, but on here theres rules to that....
The chase, all is good I will chase for how long, I dont know...but there will be a time that I stop dead in my tracks for one reason or another...could be they are not smart enough to know I'm chasing them, if so they werent interested...could be rejection hurts..could be they stopped running and i tripped over them and went head over heels..LOL how ever that is to be taken, one doesnt know.
Not sure what you did, but maybe its with him. leave him alone dont call or text nothing...let him ask the questions and dont always respond back at the very moment you receive something from, bring in some wonder and anticipation...
If he didnt agree the first time to dinner I wouldnt of put myself out there again a second time. give him some time, ride it out and see what his next move it. I think you have moved as far as you can..JMO
Way back in the day I think it thought of differently..but into today's world it is not so....stay at home wives and mothers are brilliant. there is so much responsibility that she has its almost exhausting to think of it. I've been there and have done it..i would still be doing it, but being a single mother prevents that. I feel just as worthy of person with a career or if im home taking care of my family and all that goes with it. If she knows she is worthy..then that worth and her dignity can only be taken if she allows to be done.
blue_eyed_blonde Forum Posts (5,458)
RE: Does it bother anyone else
Where from the midwest?if you ever need a boost..im only an email away, I'll walk with you.