What did I do wrong here? (43)
Just ask him another question
sorry best of luck
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Thank for the advice!
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have you shown him your unpainted toenails yet?
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Darn. No, I only showed him my painted ones. Should I have shown them the other ones too?
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Nothing He's just "not that into you" There must be something wrong with him if he hasn't felt smutty (a compliment) 
when looking at you especially from across the table. really there's nothing you did "wrong" as far as I know. The problem is more with him. I wouldn't worry about it. It's very tough getting to know someone and sometime it's just chemistry which has nothing to do with how attractive you obviously are.
when looking at you especially from across the table. really there's nothing you did "wrong" as far as I know. The problem is more with him. I wouldn't worry about it. It's very tough getting to know someone and sometime it's just chemistry which has nothing to do with how attractive you obviously are.------ This thread is Archived ------
Not sure what you did, but maybe its with him. leave him alone dont call or text nothing...let him ask the questions and dont always respond back at the very moment you receive something from, bring in some wonder and anticipation...
If he didnt agree the first time to dinner I wouldnt of put myself out there again a second time. give him some time, ride it out and see what his next move it. I think you have moved as far as you can..JMO
If he didnt agree the first time to dinner I wouldnt of put myself out there again a second time. give him some time, ride it out and see what his next move it. I think you have moved as far as you can..JMO
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Hi, Karen...
I doubt it's a matter of "what did I do wrong?", which is something we all have asked ourselves at one time or another, I'm sure. But I would say that you should not call or text him again. He knows how to get in touch with you, so sit back and see if he does. If he says he is getting put off, then give him nothing further with which to use that statement.
Sorry, kiddo. I know how it is, believe me. I hope for the best for you.
I doubt it's a matter of "what did I do wrong?", which is something we all have asked ourselves at one time or another, I'm sure. But I would say that you should not call or text him again. He knows how to get in touch with you, so sit back and see if he does. If he says he is getting put off, then give him nothing further with which to use that statement.
Sorry, kiddo. I know how it is, believe me. I hope for the best for you.
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maybe ... you want the tell, he wants the show...??
or you could keep 'going on about' the 'tell me, tell me' which is the real answer ... to your question .. if indeed you need to find a wrong... and seems this puts him off.
it was going well, what did u do right? or was it going well?
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Thank you! 
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Just a thought... and do forgive me for being jaded...
But, the last guy who kept answering my questions with questions & then getting wound up when I pressed him for straight answers ended up being full of...
well, lets just say he wasn't that intrested afterall.
I guess some men simply do not know how to let women know when they're not truely intrested.
Instead they hide behind a happy face & pretend, just to make for an entertaining evening.
As it was once said... "sometimes you just go with the flow".
I guess it's a motto of some sort for 'have fun but don't get attached'.
Sorry, but it sounds an awful lot like that to me.
*drops 2 cent in jar... leaves a hug behind...
But, the last guy who kept answering my questions with questions & then getting wound up when I pressed him for straight answers ended up being full of...
well, lets just say he wasn't that intrested afterall.
I guess some men simply do not know how to let women know when they're not truely intrested.
Instead they hide behind a happy face & pretend, just to make for an entertaining evening.
As it was once said... "sometimes you just go with the flow".
I guess it's a motto of some sort for 'have fun but don't get attached'.
Sorry, but it sounds an awful lot like that to me.
*drops 2 cent in jar... leaves a hug behind...
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It was a good date. We talked, a lot! The meeting of minds!
Then........well..........I don't want to go into details!
He still seemed very keen when he left in the morning!
Then........well..........I don't want to go into details!
He still seemed very keen when he left in the morning!
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I get that feeling too.
Thanks spicey.
Thanks spicey.
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Not every date is going to end up leading to something more.
You two got on well on line and on the phone, but you really have
to meet in person to know if there is an attraction there.
You did nothing wrong, leave him to it,
eithe way, his loss.
You two got on well on line and on the phone, but you really have
to meet in person to know if there is an attraction there.
You did nothing wrong, leave him to it,
eithe way, his loss.
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Why automatically assume that you did something "wrong"///Seems that with the "pre-history" before the dinner, that you certainly had a right, the position to enquire. Obviously from whatever perspective he is taking, he viewing it as being "pressured"... which is wrong. %)
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I'm so sorry Sweetheart.
I know it's an awful feeling.
Can you imagine if all us girls sat down together on SKYPE and shared all at once?
Not enough chocolate truffles in all of England for that!
*shudder....
That 'might' be scary!!
I know it's an awful feeling.
Can you imagine if all us girls sat down together on SKYPE and shared all at once?
Not enough chocolate truffles in all of England for that!
*shudder....
That 'might' be scary!!
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when the plumbing breaks
you dont call the electrician!
all these suppositions about what someone else is doing ..lottery opinions! its nice they care, but they cannot get inside any head but their own... no offence people ... I did say you cared.. "uhoh:
we're electricians, talk to the plumber! the guy who is being this way, the only one with the right answers... if he won't give them to you, then you need a new plumber..
you dont call the electrician!
all these suppositions about what someone else is doing ..lottery opinions! its nice they care, but they cannot get inside any head but their own... no offence people ... I did say you cared.. "uhoh:
we're electricians, talk to the plumber! the guy who is being this way, the only one with the right answers... if he won't give them to you, then you need a new plumber..
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Ok i can see where you going on this. Why can't people be honest with people whether its an on line firt that appears to be leading to more than one of the persons interested in or a date. Why doesn't the guy/woman say i'm sorry but i'm not into you. I would make life a lot easier.
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He's obviously not 'The one"
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Right, short version!
Chatting to a guy on here for a few months. Getting on very well, with no smutty talk (strange for me, but he was a nice guy!)
Met on Wednesday night and the date went very well, in fact, as well as a date can go!
We have been messaging eachother, texting, but when I asked him if we were going to see eachother again, he just answers a question with a question.
Now he says that I keep on about it (I have asked him twice for dinner!) and he is getting put off by it!
What did I do wrong???!!!!!