I shared in another thread about spirituality with some forum posters about OBE or NDE and the exchange of experiences with each other was very enlightening.
The possibility of actually letting down all of the walls is in fact, somewhat frightening.
Sometimes, I think that I do enjoy having my own identity and with holding certain things about myself are a means of protecting agains hurt.
Finances: I have been at the bottom of the barrel before, however, I do not wish to go back.
Location: hm......well. No children, however, all my siblings and parents reside in Pensacola. They make planes, automobiles and trains for that.
Heartache: Tough one. Burned pretty bad. I will let you know.
Friends: They make new ones.
Family: See above.
Security: Have cat will travel.
Failure: The worst one of all. No one wants to have another failure in a relationship. No one wants to lose at love. No one wants another heartbreak in life. Failure tends to help us become stronger and more capable of handling life's issues. It also makes up the best parts of our personalities if we let it.
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RE: What if anything...GOOD did you take away from your past relationship(s)?
Everything that I kept was good for the most part.The strength to be who I am, my identity, will power and much more.
The what ifs and could have beens are quickly disappearing beneath the newness of life, and without those past memories, I am not Cat.