It seems that many people on the rebound do not even know it.
Those that do not can cause so much pain in the lives of others.
They attach themselves and end up hurting a new and innocent party/person during this emotion healing process as well.
If people would just be honest with themselves and each other about the fact that they are not ready for a long term or exclusive relationship, some would not get hurt.
I think that sometimes we fail to even really try to understand the other persons point of view, especially when we do not agree with them.
Guilty.
There are so many situations that we are unaware of in each others lives and when we " jump " to conclusions or criticize just because we do not necessarily agree with them just shows how immature we really are.
I would hope we, as a human race, would value feelings and friendships over differences of opinions.
Judging is not my job.
Before we judge/pardon, condemn and sentence, maybe we should gather the facts and just listen for once............
I don't think I do, however............when we were growing up, five children in my family, we caught my two brothers were fishing while they were asleep in the bedroom.
And then one of them turned around and pee pee'd in the dresser drawer thinking he was in the boat......
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RE: Not Exactly What You Prayed For....
Sometimes the fact that we want answers so much helps make the choice. ( in other words - we make the answer happen )For those that honestly seek the other and make it prayerful, sometimes the waiting is the answer.
Who am I kidding ?
If you have to keep questioning and thinking, something is wrong, that is the answer.