And I'm with you 100% there, but this thread was about men not wanting to date because they were unemployed, and didn't have the money to "spend". Of course, all women love to be spoiled, but what I'm trying to say is, it doesn't take money to "spoil" us. Yes, we love the impromptu weekends away, or the romantic nights out, but that is not what a relationship should be built on
And all I'm saying is that, yes, we would love that, but, if you're not working, the decent women among us, would understand that, and not expect such gestures, the simple things mean so much more...
I have NEVER had a surprise anything sprung on me.......that's the kind of thing I do....I'd give an example that involves Celtic in the European Cup Final, but I'd just get annoyed
Anyway, all I'm saying is, if there is a connection, if two people want to be together, money, or lack of, should not get in the way...
Pride can be a terrible thing!! If you're interested, just tell him that you don't mind not being able to go out every week, that you are quite happy to have nights in, getting to know each other.
I'm kinda with you on this one. I can see where he's coming from, but "dating" isn't all about spending money on each other....if you want to "spend" time with someone, you don't have to "spend"
It depends on the couple, if one expects to be "wined and dined" and the other can't afford to do that, then it's a problem
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Darren.....who is this strange guyPlease tell him I'm "normal"