stupid dub alert...i assumed all counties would have one..sure i didnt know in some parts of the country the family dug the grave themself..
being honest i never took much notice of this death malarky, so wouldnt have questioned anything, but in recent times i suppose and being very close to a culchie (term of enderment believe me) has opened up a whole new world past the pale ..knowledge is power.
and while we are sharing info..
did you know the superquinn sausage has to be tasted to be believed..if we ever do meet at a proper meet, ill bring you some meat
now for an epitaph..
"she knew which sausage was king"
that of course is the toungue in cheek one..the real one is,
yes lads i agree...the power struggle between 2 dickheds would be too much for that relationship to survive
btw many atheists believe doing bad things hurt people and thats why they dont do it, nothing to do with the repercussions to themselves
If the only reason u dont do something is the repercussion to you, ie a hell, then you bloody well need a god..and forgiveness and belief in something bigger than you, there is something bigger than you, LOVE and u have the cheek to slag an atheist, ha
why is it the paranoids who actually do nothing with their life except boring mundane stuff are most worried about be caught..doing nothing except boring mundane stuff with their life
Is it normal for men or women to say they dont like kids..afterall its a equal society we live in?
Im sure men have this on their profile too..but the OP would only be looking at female profiles.
Men on these forums have admitted they would never date a woman with kids, so an option for..'i want my own..only', would be the proper choice.
I think whistler is right bout the dont like one..with regards to other peoples kids..and that is why the option might be there..means parents can go..nope..nexxxt, some people just go well with children who arent theirs..and its normal and honest to admit this.
With regards to women not wanting kids..like dave said..its only socially acceptable to actually admit this in recent years..
I cant help thinking that given the choice centuries back less abusive or apathetic mothers woulda been created, a bit like cruel men who can leave their children and dont contact them, some people just arent built for love of their young, and now since contraception has been invented, we have the choice.
Now dont get me wrong..not all women or men who dont want kids would be in this bracket of the abusive or apathetic ..im sure a large portion are softened once the new life comes.., and there are many other reasons why they dont want kids.
We parents know how beautiful and life changing our children are..some people are scared bodywise, lifewise and emotionwise to put every ounce of their being, future and freedom into creating life, to the point they wont..others arent scared they just dont feel that is their role in life..to create the next line.
the bottom line is..
why is it when someone doesnt want to do exactly as 'nature' intended, do we feel they are wrong and have to be questioned, ..they arent hurting anyone.
Showing you are high achiever , a team player that can be left alone, willing to take responsibility when needed, .. flexible enough that u will come in on ur day off when they need, or stay late....
They also hope that you haven't got 15 yards of slime trailing from your naked body as u spit fire from them and threaten to eat their young..
the last one is the most important.
like maddog said..we have gone back to pre celtic tiger ireland..who you know being more important..the job could already be taken, dont fret if you dont get the job.
its a bit like a date.. show what you can bring them, be you, and lay off talking about your ex too much
thats where i was coming from..with my last paragraph
separated as an option is there to inform the people looking at ur profile..i have an ex i was married to and we (if kids are ticked off the list also) might even have some contact too, i may not be into remarriage and blah...all the things that tells us.
so people know from the offset.
singles might have a problem with this..if they wanna get married..or have some guys first child, or simply hate the hassle an ex can often bring...so yeah your ex is a big part...divorced or separated ...
so yeah dave...pick the separated or divorced or not interested in marriage types who are all very non problematic with regards to your ex and kids being in touch and tadaaaaaaa ...ur in business.
actually...sofar made me think, and here is my honest opinion.
and before you freak at me...im just using the info you have posted here on forums for everyone to see,
if ur on the sick here..surely ur not well enough to go to a foreign country and work...
and there is the small matter of your son, Who i actually dont think you could abandon.
Leaving a country that is supplying no work is one thing if you're mentally and physically strong, its hard enough to leave friends and family who are fully grown adults... without leaving your child behind.
so no i cant see you there, id like to see u happier here though.
society is very judgemental...where you live..what you work at..what you drive..who u married or didnt, what you wear, what music you listen to, how many kids u have or havent..your take on religion, politics blah..
sadly those brave enough not to "fit in cos they have to" arent in the majority.
that goes for most arguments not just the feminist one.
this whole movement of anti feminist is just the same as the extreme feminism..it tries to point out that women of the past were happier, more feminine ..blah..
basically taking one brainwashing and trying to replace it with another.
but once u point out one brainwashing..surely it reveals the one trying to be placed into your mind, instead.
the church bit is to fit in..so mammy in law and mammy and great aunty mary and aunty bridey are all happy..and yer pics look great and sure theres plenty of places to put flowers..and bejesus my 6 mates got married in church i cant be the odd one out
lol opening line made me laugh..divorce is up 500% in last 25 years.
miracle with regards to ireland..divorce is only available since what..95! which was 18 years ago only..... so yeah it would be up in the last 25 years..
and before that they only separated when one didnt give the other an option ie skipping the country or moving in with the new partner.
now heres the ireland we lived in,..
a man left his wife in 1987 he had had many many affairs and this one was..so special he decided more special than his wife n 3 kids...
she his abandoned but unable to divorce him wife..a couple years later during the pre confirmation chat with the local priest was told as a married woman..with a new man in her life she would not be allowed get communion on her childs special day.
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RE: How to Pick the Right Wife
i wont have good decent people downgraded.. cant help being someone who will speak up regardless of what people think of me..witty i just cant help being myself, so i wont