I don't normally make resolutions...but this year mine are to:
quit smoking....yeah right. Be a better mother Be a better person in general Get a job that I make more money at Be a good girlfriend/wife...if in this year I can find and keep a man!
Some don't admit to the bad memory either...It's called "denial". As for admitting to "bad judgement"...I will admit it and to "bad choices". Sometimes we changed those choices and make things better. That is my plan for 2007. Better choices every year that comes...and I've been accomplishing it as well. Happy New Year to you!
If you gave it to her because it meant something...it's up to her. I don't think however...she should wear it as if you were still together. I've seen some women do it, to maybe feel a "connection" still with that man. When it's done...it's done. Memories are good, but sometimes they are for the wrong reason.
I personally would probably give it back. It wouldn't have the same signigicance and what good would it do to continue to hurt myself wearing something that symbolizes the past.
I got to spend the first Christmas this year with family. After meeting my two brothers and my sister two years ago...I was able to have one brother and my sis at my house with the kids yesterday. My other brother couldn't come but he was in our hearts. My three oldest children are still in Utah but I did talk to two of them. First Christmas without them. A little sad, but at the same time, had more family around this year than ever.
It's the first year my children had family around and that was more important to us all then any other gift. I am grateful for that and so are they.
I hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas and a Happy New Year to come!
blancalatina Forum Posts (3,315)
I'd let you have two weeks to regret it and six times a day!
Who?
RE: to party or not to party