blancalatina Forum Posts

Feb 4, 2007

RE: Lights on....or lights off?

Men are visual...woman are emotional. I prefer the lights off...with a few candles lit...just enough to allow the "visual" for him.

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Feb 4, 2007

RE: aggressive woman

Easy mistake to make hon...now that's go find our Greek God and be "aggressive"!!!

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Feb 4, 2007

RE: Who's gonna watch the Superbowl tonight?

He's only voting for the Colts because his cousin is the coach. Like he said though...they don't talk much so that info and $1.25 more will get you a can of coke!

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Feb 4, 2007

RE: Who's gonna watch the Superbowl tonight?

It's not allowed here...per forum rules! I fully intend to collect on the bet....one way or another!

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Feb 4, 2007

RE: aggressive woman

I think woman in general are not aggressive unless provoked. I think lots of woman are assertive and there's nothing wrong with it.

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Feb 4, 2007

RE: Who's gonna watch the Superbowl tonight?

I'm going to watch. My guy is going for the Colts but I am for the Bears...just to make it interesting. I am a New England Patriots fan and the Colts kicked butt...just like he said they would. He hasn't let me live that one down yet!

We have a bet going for the game....and it's going to be a win/win bet anyway!!!! Yes, it's something I can't discuss here...but I'm going to enjoy it afterwards ragardless of WHO wins!

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Feb 4, 2007

RE: learn to grow

No, it doesn't seem "simple" in black and white. It seems more "real". Sometimes I forget what this all means. Thanks for making me think about it again.

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Feb 4, 2007

RE: learn to grow

Thank you. My parents have taught me a lot growing up by their example. Adopting my twin and I was a brave step when their own children were grown and had their own lives! ( yes, I REALLY do have an evil twin...but he's a man)

Yes, I'm glad they have each other. I see them both still learning and growing together. They've been through some really bad times, but always manage to keep it together. That's what I want. I think we all do.

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Feb 4, 2007

RE: learn to grow

Wow....PTG. You're so right. I've learned one thing in this lifetime.....that "getting to know someone" is a constant learning experience. It happens every day. You learn something new daily.

I've watched my parents who have been married for over 63 years and I admire them. They compliment each other's personality, and my mother is now my father's care giver. He has Parkinson's disease and he gone downhill for the past 10 years very slowly.

I never want to stop learning about my partner. I guess I just never saw it in writing and realized the effort it takes. It's real.

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Feb 4, 2007

RE: aggressive woman

Yes Ma'am...you're right.

One of my ex's had a hard time with the fact that I take care of my own and didn't need him for anything. I've never "needed" any of them. He swore he'd start helping out more financially...since he never did. Never happened. My philosophy is now....If you're not giving....then don't TAKE!

I am very independent and it would take a strong man to "teach" me by example that he also can "share" in responsibilities. I'm so used to doing everything myself...it's hard just to let the man I'm dating now...take out the garbage! I think I could get used to him doing things though....

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Feb 4, 2007

RE: I Dare Ya to Jack My Thread......

It's ok to be "slow" in the aisles. It's the ones who block the entire aisle looking and when you ask to get by the ignore you! It happened to me yesterday. At first I thought she was hard of hearing...but she was so intent on finding a certain CD and swearing under her breath I had to laugh inside. She wasn't over about 82!

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Feb 4, 2007

RE: place of refuge

This is an excellent question. I haven't thought about this until now. I used to take a drive and go to the canyons in Utah...sit there and listen to music, and look at the beautiful mountains.

I haven't really found a place here in NC, except for the walking trails that overlook a lake that my sister brought me to. Thanks for bringing this up. I think I'm going there today.

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Feb 4, 2007

RE: Well im not good at showing my emotions to much but here it goes.....

It's people like you Stew that make coming here all the worthwhile. Your sincerity and good heart make the world a better place to be...including the cyber world. You are adored. Just know that.

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Feb 4, 2007