"Seasons in the sun"...my favorite.I found out it was my biological mother's too. She died at the age of 35 of cancer, and that song still runs through my head. I guess we did "connect" somehow, even though I never knew her.
You owe him nothing. No explanations. No excuses. No reasons. You owe nothing to yourself. If it's not there...it's not going to be. If he asks...well, I know you're a very intelligent woman and can answer him accordingly.
Sometimes we kiss a lot of frogs to get to the Prince. Since you didn't have to kiss him...wait for the Prince.
I have found this to be very true. My guy is a great kisser and everything else comes along with it...is just fantastic. I love to kiss and can never get enough!!!
After 40 your prospects are only limited by geographics...and population. Unfortunately if someone is living in a limited area it's not likely that there are many "options" and sometimes that leands to "settling". I am going to be 44 soon and I realized that when I least expected, or "looked" I found, thus far, what I've been looking for. I never thought it would "happen". I hope that everyone can find the love, affection, understanding, communication, and solid relationship that I have found.
I understand how you feel Leo, and sometimes we think we are better off by ourselves. Loneliness is a good thing sometimes. It reminds us of what we want, and when we find it...we tend not to take that for granted. I can't imagine that you ever would anyway.
Marry yourself? I couldn't think of a better partner!
I believe you mean don't let it "betray" you...but I'm not sure. The last man I dated said my "looks" would fade and I would be alone. I sure hope that a man, any man, wouldn't be with me for my "looks", cause I'm not sure they're all that great! I guess this means he wanted a "trophy" woman and I'm not the one for that role!
Now tell me I'm beautiful "inside" and that makes me happy. That's what it's important to me. The rest is slowing gravitating South anyway and it's not going to be pretty!!!
RE: Lonely People
better than herding "turds"