Well, you might want to start by getting the idea of a "soul mate" out of your head. I think that there are many wonderful men out there. But if you are looking for one "perfect" man, your not going to find him.
They all have flaws, just like we do. Think about what is REALLY important to you. (For me it is sense of humor. I can't live without it.) Find the man that fits the qualities you desire most, and lovehim for exactly what he is!
RE: HELTER SHELTER #2
Yeah! You get her Huron!