I would think the bigger problem for men would be with how independant women have become. With our own jobs, our own homes, our own money, friends, half of their wooing material is gone.
Throw in the fact that she will happily dine out alone, vacation alone, figure out how to fix her house up on her own, and it becomes even more difficult.
Men have been forced to show their feelings, become a friend first, and be funny as hell. And of course still want that girl to spread her wings and fly, and respect her for her accomplishments. It can't be easy.
So yeah, we all had little school girl crushes. What girl didn't? But why do you think there are so many women on singles sites? We want the package deal.
It's really not so hard. We want a friend, lover, fix-it man, a man who is confident in who he is, that can make a sandwich if we are at work, or even throw the clothes in the dryer. A partner.
RE: Make noise when make love?
Well that depends on he man now doesn't it?