Could be good reasons one might not date you that aren't being rude...like you are too young or live too far or wrong religion (if serious about theirs)etc..
True...they want to have SOME fun on each date. If they have so many questions they feel like they are at a job interview or being questioned by interrogators (ha ha) or worse...one stalks them to get the facts THAT way...that can be boring or else (in stalking case) intrusive.
I'd never wish to manipulate minds. Influence them is one thing but if it manipulate in a totally controlling way...no way on that one. Something about that seems un-American.
Yeah..and it wasn't nice because his behavior should be seen as a legal infraction OR misdemeanor IF keeps it up. LAST night he blasted..I mean blasted his music at 12 AM or a it after that made me jump. I heard it LOUD in my place.
The notes are 1) so if anyone comes up at night or early morning to ask me (bothering me) WHO is making that noise or if I know the MAIN details like the guys name...because he is new...it will be on the door ETC...Also if anyone calls the cops other then me or before me it will already be on my door that I have already complained IN CASE anyone forgets. 2) When I talk to him NOW I call him inconsiderate ____ and he should move to ____ _____ or ______were certain controlling types like (with dictators ) cause they probably force EVERYTHING on people down to what they listen to. I hate him enough for messing up the quality of my days ...robbing time and alertness from me. I am tired more than I had been. He is home a lot and told me that when he moved in but he waits till 10 AM or after to play the loudest stuff. If I disrespect someone enough I feel like it will be all BLUNT rude talk to get back ad that will cause the person to scream sometimes. They don't reply as loud when they just read stuff about them....like if I slip them a note under their door. 3) If I see or hear someone d something REAL inconsiderate they deserve the advertisement. Not all are home when things happen and I am not going to wait to say it all when they are so I post it on my door because there is no bulletin board in my building. 4) I am kind of an activist with rights and anti-crime things even though many don't see this incident on noise as major. Just saying though that I already put up signs on crimes in areas where certain crimes happened for everything from blood donations for victims and cops to support for those who do good and help stigmatize the corrupt or inconsiderate who commit crimes. So Signs is an easy way to advertise. I see people stop and discuss them. When someone bothers me repeatedly with noise I only put up signs IN my place and area. I can't pay back too much with loud noise and not at all at night because of others in the building. I COULD hit the heck out of him but don't handle things that way...the law-abiding type for one. SO...only so much to do for one who believes in revenge with SOME types. Cause some will always forget and DO AGAIN.
Even though its only a similar comparison...look at activists of various types. they get things done BY complaining. It gets people thinking on both sides and talking and sometimes ideas get going and you end up with more support for your own side.
I called the non-emergency police number in Philadelphia, PA once in the day to ask a question and found out they have only one person who has a tool to measure the sound in my neighborhood and she is only available 2 days a week. Oh brother! Maybe because of the economy and cutbacks. I don't know why others don't use it for her the other days...if it is hard to use or what.
You mean like a porcupine animal? Ha ha. So, only women with long hair that is at least to the neck or guys with longer hair or who don't shave the neck can answer this...ha ha. I'm being silly.
usually doesn't take snooping/prying/spying on. Just looking around casually sometimes like normally would. Many people talk openly around other colleagues assuming they all hate the boss. DUMB. They are more fair in most ways I have found then the co-workers who also USUALLY seem lazier except when bosses are around. I studied criminal justice and have a love for JUSTICE though. I realize pencils are not a huge deal but I would look at it as doing a favor for a person and place. COULD even lead to hurting a company which in turn lays everyone off or fails if ENOUGH tiny things were taken.
I look at reporting things a saving someone time so they can have those around they PREFER...IF that is what they would like. Even if it isn't about a theft, but lets say I was SURE my friend was being cheated on because I seen her husband and someone getting realm affectionate (so wasn't based ONLY on gossip), AND also I KNEW she definitely didn't support an open marriage situation where the wife doesn't care about cheating...THEN I would tell her. I suppose she might think I was lying but I would say "Hire PIs for a day or two. You deserve better.He deserves the type who cheat and don't stick with commitments."
Ha ha..How often you think you think people get things in their pants to bite them (some smart alecks will joke about people biting them but we're talking about insects, and animals.)
That feels like MY head sometimes when it sounds like a vibrating band playing in there. to make it worse he doesn't work so doesn't have to be up at certain times.
Not a bad time but I thought of how It is hard to concentrate on what doing even if early evening if I hear his stuff the same or louder. If he is not deaf or an elderly person it is inconsiderate to even have THAT loud at an earlier time, really. Houses are for THEM. It seems like the only solution is to get a place that has residents who will complain too or a manager on the premises again.
And I don't feel like talking nice or sking nice if 1) it has been handles OVER and over, or 2) was awoken and/or it is OBVIOUSLY loud to anyone with common sense. THEN...I figure THEY DESERVE to be yelled at AND talked down to. I told one guy to move to some controlling country where they might MAKE people listen to certain things.
I thought of many times but he changes it back and forth a lot but maybe they would come and wait a bit and listen.I used to have manager around for other buildings and many times would hear it fast and I wouldn't have to yell at all.
Not relevant to say they THEMSELVES aren't perfect when most don't do crimes. This one wouldn't be as bad though. I would wait a bit just to see if had a bad memory and took by accident though. If they looked around a lot and slipped stuff in pockets or spoke of how they didn't get paid enough (as some HAVE in past I would report). To look like I wasn't looking to get extra attention or a promotion I would say to watch out for certain things at certain times and not say who right away or else wait till I was ready to find another job or already quit or many times I wasn't at my dream place and made it clear to people I would not take a promotion IF they wondered because I was looking elsewhere. I live for integrity. I figure IF anything we should find something in life to improve instead of being here to just make money and have fun.Of course there are MANY things we can do like recycle etc.
True. People have told me reporting that stuff is none of MY business if I am not a manager but I tell them that is irrelevant because how would many even know without others seeing or hearing things being spoken about in ways? Ya know? And some companies IF can afford have used PIs is enough is taken (or cams) which I don't blame them for. It all adds up sometimes, besides. I also seen people rip off employers by taking excess breaks once bosses were out to meetings.
Not all become angry and some just silly etc. But my mom's Dad would wake them up in the middle of the night to give them(the kids) treats when he got home from drinking. They would feel scared so ate the stuff and also they got few treats so willingly ate late at night. Then... if a few got chubby-kinda- he insulted them.
They should have provided details on that already. I think many worried too long. I am a veteran and I wasn't even told if I NEEDED to get it with the VA clinic benefits I already have...because I don't have dental and vision. This lady claimed I don't. Anyhow, it would be easier if they spelled out the details online unstead of all these people going to the site to chat and ask questions one by one.
It usually take special people to stay calm and stay focused with stress of emergencies(all going n around and emotions, sirens etc). The work you do...or maybe did... said something about you isn't just ordinary.
Maybe...IF they see it that way. I feel it is not in the choice. You are a hero if by LUCK are there. Could be a person at a beach and help a stranger drowning just because you feel for them or their family. To me...that person would be a hero just because of the comibination of that chance happening to be THERE and also because they are the type who would do most of what they could to help depending on situation. To me that makes a hero. Even if they don't care...and just do it do to jobs though-the cat itself is that of heroism. To save from injury or pain or death.
Maybe it didn't take risk? SO... you felt humble? I seen a comment in a hero museum made by a cop during 9/11 and he said he was ONLY doing his job. Cripes...I would say anything but that. "I had a lot of dust in my eyes" or something to get off the subject if I didn't want to discuss it.People in certain religions - COULD, I suppose think that any accepting any extra attention to themselves is not good.
My long question above was cut off..oh brother! Basically the question: Why do you think first responders who save someone many times say, "I was JUST doing my job." Like that is ALL it is about.
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RE: Would You Date Me Or....(Women ONLY)
Could be good reasons one might not date you that aren't being rude...like you are too young or live too far or wrong religion (if serious about theirs)etc..