You know as well as I do Karen, women are capable of being b*tches...bitter and twisted...just the same as men. I believe you've said as much yourself.
At the end of the day, players are empty vessels...serial predators who deserve nothing from others. But to label anybody a player just because it siuts us is plain wrong and unjust.
True, if that woman can clearly determine she's been deliberately lied to and misled, she has grounds for believing she was played.
But how does she know she's a player? Doesn't the term 'player' denote some kind of serial behaviour? And if she's not aware of such serial behaviour, how can she accurately label him a player?
Surely it comes back to perceptions...and in an emotional state, some can be mistaken and not accept it just wasn't meant to be.
For me also, it was in comparing my own thoughts and feelings against the biggotry present in my family...it's why I react so passionately against percieved injustice and hypocracy in the way I do.
I'm not particularly gifted or special at anything my friend, but I do know what you're getting at. Just differing cultural views on this matter...I'm a little more stoic about the whole self image thing.
Kimmy, you had a different picture up from this one a couple of days ago...you were much darker haired and had a completely different face...amazing tallent you have!
RE: I apologize