I don't want them here either. And it's for the simple fact that they refuse to assimilate into their host countries' society and abide by the laws. They band together in areas creating non-Muslim no go zones were outsiders are not welcome. They are trying to impose Sharia Law on everyone.
When you immigrate to a foreign country, you must abide by your host countries' laws! If you cannot do this, go back to your own country!
Speaking for myself, it started out as friendship 2 months ago, but I've recently been "claimed/chosen." Bam! I was blindsided and I never saw it coming.
Speak to her honestly about your questions and concerns. Be thorough in your questions so there is no confusion, on your part, on where you stand in the relationship.
Oh, I do. Some people don't want to be helped and no amount of trying by the partner can help the person if they won't take responsibility and help themselves.
There is nothing selfish about looking after your own health and well being.
You are a very understand caring man. You deserve the same treatment in return. You need to have a serious talk with her about the future of your relationship. Find out for sure what her intentions are. If she refuses to get help and just wants to repeat her toxic abusive behaviors, then it's in your best interests and the preservation of your sanity, to walk away.
Just talk with her and get everything out in the open so you can clear up any confusion.
Okay, I see your point. And if she is unwilling to get help and her behaviors are creating a toxic environment, by all means, he should save himself from further grief and remove himself from the situation.
No! You don't need to give up on her. If she is really important to you, you can be supportive of her as she receives counseling and treatment. If she refuses to get help and repeats her destructive behaviors, then it's best for your sanity to leave. You can't change people, she needs to want to do that for herself. I stopped my destructive behaviors when I stopped my alcoholism in 2001 and my addiction to Opium-based pain killers in 2008.
I receive counseling and medication for my mental health issues. I take care of myself and remain clean and sober. I wanted to illustrate that is possible for a person to change if they want to. But, it is a long difficult road to recovery.
It is a possibility, but these can also be signs of a mental illness that is not being treated. These very destructive, negative, confusing behaviors are signs of someone in need of help and until she gets treatment, a healthy relationship is not possible.
Is she getting professional help for her issues? My counselor says there are some things that cannot be resolved on our won or with self help books. Sometimes outside intervention is needed to gain insight into our situation and effect healing.
There is more to the suffering of chronic depression than you can imagine. I am a 3 time suicide attempt survivor. When you are so far down inside a black abyss, you can't see any options or ways to overcome it. You are mentally, physically and spiritually broken and exhausted, and you just want the unrelenting pain to end.
But with professional treatment, you are presented with options and ways to cope with the difficulties of life. Treatment also leads to the person gaining confidence and strength. With these new-found skills, the depressed person is able to function normally and get joy out of life.
Yes, there is a difference between situational depression and chronic depression. Situational depression is due to a disturbing event in your life such as a death of a family member or a close friend or the loss of a job, etc. Chronic depression is due to a chemical imbalance in the brain and has nothing to do with events going on in the person's life.
Your suggestions for treatment, will help with both types of depression.
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Take it slow getting to know her and be friends first. That is the best way to do it. 
Did I just say that? 
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Thank you!