I would have loved to have taken her but my health is not good enough to keep up with an active growing child. She is well looked after at the foster home and has been there for 4 years. The adoption was put on hold until they could get permission from the band, it has been a long wait. Do not know what is taking so long.
I know it is best to ignore it but now she cannot come here for visits when he is here. I am worried what she might say next when she goes back to the foster mom. She is to be adopted and then I will have no more visits so wanted as many as possible now, but having second thoughts about her coming for visits.
I just wonder why a 5 year old would say the word inappropriate instead of just saying he padded my botton. We never saw this happen and she never said anything to us. The social worker was surprised we did not know nothing about it.
I am upset as my two grand kids were outside playing, one a boy and one a girl. The boy is turning 6 and has autism and the girl is 5. We got a phone call a couple of days ago that the foster mother of the girl is upset as she said that the boy touched her inappropriate and she did not like it.
After investigating they found out he had padded her on her bottom. Now they are not allowed to be here at the same time. I do not know why she would use those words and wonder what else she is saying when she is here.
No it does not offend me as I know that violence is a sad part of alzheimer's. It is that after my dad leaves from visiting her she would go around into other residents rooms looking for him. They had to restrain her. She is now pulling the staffs hair when they are taking care of her and striking out at the other residents.
My dad thinks it is because she is locked in there and if at home she would not be violent. I know she cannot be home as she would take off from there and get lost.
I talked to my Dad today and he cannot come to terms that his wife is getting worse from Alzheimer's. She is starting to be violent with the staff and they transferred her to the hospital to try and adjust her medication. He has never seen her have any violent behavior and thinks she might be better to just come home.
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