Thanks honey. Glad ur wee kitty is btr. I do hope he comes good....but wudnt let h.go without doing all i cud. Love him more than i like most people ...as u wud know being an animal lover too.
I do not have any barriers on my profile ..is that what u are asking. Men do still message me and i still chat to them but let them know im not looking.
I have black gay men friends I have white gay women friends. I have friends from various parts of the world. I am friends with straight white men and women I am friends with men of an age older than my dad and mam. I actually know some transvestites but unfortunately we havnt become so aquainted that i can call them friends..
And if u care to take a second to see my profile u will see it says that i am currently not looking to meet anyone no matter race or creed or colour.
So where can u say im being prejudice ..if thats what ur implying by ur response above to me??
Yes a woman who is attractive might lets say get better service than a woman who he deems not so attractive. Or they may get more attention from men in a group of women because he deems her more attractive tjan her friends.
Looks do not sustain a relationship. Looks dont get ur partner through a difficult patch in their lives. Looks dont help when ur caring for a sick partner.
The only reason looks of women bother men is because maybe its the men themselves who deem looks to be the be all and end all of things.
Ive heard people comment on a couple where it was said..."what does he see in her he is far too attractive or vice versa". The people who say this r the only people who feel it matters what someone looks like.
I know plenty of men and women who i feel are highly attractive and yet they are not even aware of it in themselves...not aware that they turn heads every where they go. That to me.is an even more attractive trait.
Yes ur being inclusive to the extent of the age thing which i also dont agree with.
What im talking about is the name calling.
Lets say yes a person sits around all day a d eats watever they want and is scrounging off the government because they cant/wont get work. What in all honesty is the point in calling them.every name under the sun. Calling the the F word or the L word. Seriously what does it solve? Will they suddenly come on here. See u say these things and suddenly decide they should change their lives. Hell no hey wont of anything u will drive them to go further into theor own spiral.
I dont see the poit in he name calling...it shows u or anyone elae up for the lack of decency than it does anything to them. If u want to be proactive about it...go to a person u feel is like this...shake their hand.
Be their friend..help them out...because more often than not these people have underlying mental health conditions that has them as they are.
Go help he homeless who are on the side of the street by taking them for lunch or dinner and talk to them. Instead of calling them the B word.
Go visit sick people in hospital and see what they go through before one goes calling them Bed hoggers and clogging up he system.
Took many yackers on here and not enough doers in my opinion. Everyone "knows" how to change the world from the comfort of their sittig rooms and not enough get up and goers who are willing to at least make someone as close as a next door neighbour lives better.
Deedee123x Forum Posts (4,795)
u gorgeous man 
RE: Abusive males
Wish id been here then