Many moons ago I was sick and got a lot heavier. It is not that I couldn't find a partner, but when all of this was resolved and I was within my BMI index, I got a LOT more attention.
Guys that wouldn't have given me the time of the day were suddenly all over me (and no, I wasn't flattered nor desperate )
Different strokes for different folks and if someone has a personality like a dead fish, they can be pretty and slim as much as they like and not being able to get into a relationship - but it is a LOT easier to meet guys if you fit in a nice, flattering dress and are happy in your skin.
Many moons ago I was sick and got a lot heavier. It is not that I couldn't find a partner, but when all of this was resolved and I was within my BMI index, I got a LOT more attention.
Guys that wouldn't have given me the time of the day were suddenly all over me (and no, I wasn't flattered nor desperate )
Different strokes for different folks and if someone has a personality like a dead fish, they can be pretty and slim as much as they like and not being able to get into a relationship - but it is a LOT easier to meet guys if you fit in a nice, flattering dress and are happy in your skin.
I find slimmer women have more self confidence.. a major attraction in my eyes.
Jan 7, 2018 3:38 PM CST Do you think slim women have a better chance of dating ...
marlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada585 Posts
marlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada585 posts
I do not think so, from what i have seen it is about approach ability, in the end it is not about how many approach you but one you actually want to date.
One2note: Are fat women popular in the states & if not , why are there so many obese people there
I find it rediculous when I go to a public health center or hospital and sit down I find myself in a triple-wide chair. My arms are to short to reach the chair’s arms. The wheelchairs are built Different here too. They have six wheels and suspension systems,
marlindap: I do not think so, from what i have seen it is about approach ability, in the end it is not about how many approach you but one you actually want to date.
But what if the fit one doesn't want to date you & all that's left is the porker?
galrads: I find it rediculous when I go to a public health center or hospital and sit down I find myself in a triple-wide chair. My arms are to short to reach the chair’s arms. The wheelchairs are built Different here too. They have six wheels and suspension systems,
One2note: I find slimmer women have more self confidence.. a major attraction in my eyes.
Hmmm, being happy in someone's skin is positive and some people do have self confidence issues because of being overweight.
In general yes, self confidence is attractive and it is not attractive to sit through a meeting of whatever kind to have someone whinging. Has been a major turn-off for me with a guy in the past - btw. weight wasn't the issue there.
galrads: I find it rediculous when I go to a public health center or hospital and sit down I find myself in a triple-wide chair. My arms are to short to reach the chair’s arms. The wheelchairs are built Different here too. They have six wheels and suspension systems,
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