It doesn't have to be the reason... To me - it just seemed ridiculous at the moment - keeping letters, poems, cards, notes, some small gifts that meant something to us only - while it was all so long time ago and we don't share those feelings any more. Memories always remain inside us and make us what we are now. I didn't destroyed all - I kept the photos and some (meaningful :D ) gifts. :)
So far, I can see that our CS members keep their old love memories. :)
Don't you worry about your future partner? What if he/she is a jealous person and doesn't like that at all?[/quote
I would agree with you Maya. I keep the photos as I love them. But anything else I've gotten rid of not necessarily because it's from them..I normally do a clear out twice or three times a year anyways so they naturally go once they have served their purpose.
Hold no ill will towards any ex....but I don't feel the need to hold onto things for very long.
I see it all the time at the hardware store, women looking at all the cordless power tools, in particular the reciprocating saws, and nervously biting their bottom lip. And we all know what that means.[/quote
Ya that she's plenty for the hubby to do when she gets home!!]
RE: Exstra tipping at Christmas time..................
I shall indeed.Cheers.
Happy xmas