What statement did I make that ur curios about?? She is an aquaintance....she works in our building...I see her along with others everyday. I don't feel it was gossiping as I do admire her. It was an example that we used to continue a discussion based on the psychology of happiness rather than to bash her for being happy. How r u socially impaired might I ask..
My username is DeeDee I prefer u refer to me as such and not Double D. Or is ur eyesight failing you.
I find ur responses both tiresome and aggressive. U remind me of another poster on the forums who like to...or sorry who appears to like to talk down to people in his responses. If this isn't correct then I apologise. No I never said that she was the one I interact with either. Again ur comprehension is somewhat lacking Let_Us I myself prefer the word verbose...because yes u do love words...you also love to take the time to make ur posts stand out. No one's attention span can keep up with ur posts Let_Us....that's why numerous plp have said as such to u. But perhaps u feel ur more superior than others therefore u can write as long as u want because ur you n who shudnt or want to listen to u. Maybe something YOU SHOULD THINK ABOUT .
I'm not sure I was being clear with my thread. I think what I mean is people who are overly happy ...overly displaying any emotion really are the people who make me uneasy.
Simply smiling to convey happiness is hardly to put anyone at ill-ease (if that's a word)
I hope u don't suffer from manic depression btw ...
Let. For a guy who gives such attention to detail in his answers I wish u wud take that time when dissecting my initial post and the compreHenson of it.
Did I say this other person was a friend?? NO Did I say I wasn't a happy person?? NO I've nothing against contented people. I've nothing against anyone at all really. What my point is that people who mask emotion with a different emotion make me uneasy. The same way a person who is quite easily seething with rage might mask their emotions with a big smile on their face. I don't care nor is it my business what people have got going on at home. I'm talking about the people that I have to interact with or who interact with me.
I get u are very verbose...but it makes wanting to reply to u very tiresome when I have to read your long responses. Just saying.
It's great if in their world they have no complaints. But sometimes constant "oh the world is so wonderful" can be as grating as a misery guts. Not a popular opinion I might add but it's a real one.
I'm discussing the psychology of it all rather than anything. I don't wish to see her unhappy at all. I'm just having a discussion about a topic and I'm using an example. I hope she is happy...I'm not hating on her just needed an analogy for my thread.
I've had this discussion with a friend, we were discussing an acquaintance we know who always has the appearance of full blown happiness....never a negative word to speak about anyone...always a smile on her face. Always a funny yarn to tell....bas I call you skips not walks everywhere.
As much as I do admire her outlook and positivity. Is it really sustainable this notion of putting your best face forward. At times we have to suck it up and act it.
But people who always find the silver lining to me are somewhat an enigma.
It proves the point that mothers always know best!! How did u manage 4 1/2 years without Money... Also u can stargaze from the comfort of ur home looking out ur window. Why the middle of the road???
U have hit the nail square on the head with this post Non....it's exactly how I feel.
People can go through life with behaviours that they have been conditioned to have. It's not until they find themselves that they fine their true self. The innate in us is probably harder to change but if we recognize that it no longer serves it's purpose is when we can then change it.
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Are happy people to be trusted.
What statement did I make that ur curios about??She is an aquaintance....she works in our building...I see her along with others everyday.
I don't feel it was gossiping as I do admire her.
It was an example that we used to continue a discussion based on the psychology of happiness rather than to bash her for being happy.
How r u socially impaired might I ask..