Do we ever change really. ( Archived) (69)

Nov 16, 2017 10:04 AM CST Do we ever change really.
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
I've read somewhere that ur personality is developed by the time u reach the age of 5.

Given life circumstances....hardships....relationships....life changes.
Do we ever really change from when we r very young.

I don't mean the changes that come with maturity.
But ur basic personality? ?

Just something I've always wondered when seeing some do a complete 180° from what they once we're when a major life change happens..and the personality that once was is gone.

Do u believe this is possible or are some living a complete lie
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Nov 16, 2017 10:07 AM CST Do we ever change really.
Duromojon
DuromojonDuromojonTampa, Florida USA99 Threads 1,224 Posts
time they're a changing. not humans. is our nature. we can't change as persons.gift
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Nov 16, 2017 10:12 AM CST Do we ever change really.
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Duromojon: time they're a changing. not humans. is our nature. we can't change as persons.


U don't feel even after the loss of someone uve loved all ur life..that it doesn't change a part of u forever?

I'm going deep I know!!
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Nov 16, 2017 10:15 AM CST Do we ever change really.
Duromojon
DuromojonDuromojonTampa, Florida USA99 Threads 1,224 Posts
I remember millions years ago. I was with a girlfriend. I don't smoke. she did.

one day she said to me. I'm quitting smoking for you. I said, if you want to quit

smoking do it for yourself and you little daughter. well, she didn't quit.

and I didn't care. today I do care I hate cigarettes gift
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Nov 16, 2017 10:17 AM CST Do we ever change really.
Duromojon
DuromojonDuromojonTampa, Florida USA99 Threads 1,224 Posts
Deedee123x: U don't feel even after the loss of someone uve loved all ur life..that it doesn't change a part of u forever?

I'm going deep I know!!


sorry if you're on that state now. remember, it will be out of you.
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Nov 16, 2017 10:20 AM CST Do we ever change really.
Duromojon
DuromojonDuromojonTampa, Florida USA99 Threads 1,224 Posts
Deedee123x: U don't feel even after the loss of someone uve loved all ur life..that it doesn't change a part of u forever?

I'm going deep I know!!


the last girlfriend I had, 6 years ago. she used to called me a drifter. I'm no drifter.

drifters don't stay in 1 place for long. she broke with me cause I moved 25 minutes driving from her

she thought I was a drifter?confused
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Nov 16, 2017 10:22 AM CST Do we ever change really.
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Duromojon: I remember millions years ago. I was with a girlfriend. I don't smoke. she did.

one day she said to me. I'm quitting smoking for you. I said, if you want to quit

smoking do it for yourself and you little daughter. well, she didn't quit.

and I didn't care. today I do care I hate cigarettes


Lol....I think that has more to do with our habits than personalities dontcha think
laugh
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Nov 16, 2017 10:22 AM CST Do we ever change really.
It takes about 7 years to replace all cells in your body.
(except the eggs)

Yes, in 7 years you are a complete new old person. Every part that was once you will be removed, recycled, etc...

The personality in your brains is electric current, that changes even faster.
You can be altered by alcohol, chocolate and other things.

Don't believe you are the same, as the things forming you will be forgotten, replaced, etc
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Nov 16, 2017 10:23 AM CST Do we ever change really.
Duromojon
DuromojonDuromojonTampa, Florida USA99 Threads 1,224 Posts
I think what's keeping me kicking around is music.

I can't stop listening to music. even when my parents passed

never stop listening to music. I mean, hard core music.

not music that will make me crygift
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Nov 16, 2017 10:24 AM CST Do we ever change really.
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Duromojon: sorry if you're on that state now. remember, it will be out of you.


No hun thank god and touch wood Im not going through that.
But ur a dote for caring heart beating
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Nov 16, 2017 10:25 AM CST Do we ever change really.
Duromojon
DuromojonDuromojonTampa, Florida USA99 Threads 1,224 Posts
Deedee123x: Lol....I think that has more to do with our habits than personalities dontcha think


yes. indeedlaugh
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Nov 16, 2017 10:25 AM CST Do we ever change really.
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Duromojon: the last girlfriend I had, 6 years ago. she used to called me a drifter. I'm no drifter.

drifters don't stay in 1 place for long. she broke with me cause I moved 25 minutes driving from her

she thought I was a drifter?


Then she quite obviously wasn't the one for u!!
That's a bit mad alright isn't it...women eh pppuhh!! Who wud have em.laugh
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Nov 16, 2017 10:26 AM CST Do we ever change really.
Duromojon
DuromojonDuromojonTampa, Florida USA99 Threads 1,224 Posts
Deedee123x: No hun thank god and touch wood Im not going through that.
But ur a dote for caring


confused but, you said, you're deep nowconfused
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Nov 16, 2017 10:27 AM CST Do we ever change really.
Deedee123x: I've read somewhere that ur personality is developed by the time u reach the age of 5.

Given life circumstances....hardships....relationships....life changes.
Do we ever really change from when we r very young.

I don't mean the changes that come with maturity.
But ur basic personality? ?

Just something I've always wondered when seeing some do a complete 180° from what they once we're when a major life change happens..and the personality that once was is gone.

Do u believe this is possible or are some living a complete lie


It's most definitely possible and PTSD being a typical example
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Nov 16, 2017 10:29 AM CST Do we ever change really.
Duromojon
DuromojonDuromojonTampa, Florida USA99 Threads 1,224 Posts
Deedee123x: Then she quite obviously wasn't the one for u!!
That's a bit mad alright isn't it...women eh pppuhh!! Who wud have em.


yes. there's more to say about this. but I won't. obviously, she was wrong.

all I wanted was a place to call home. like she has. well, it doesn't matter now.gift
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Nov 16, 2017 10:30 AM CST Do we ever change really.
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Len05: It takes about 7 years to replace all cells in your body.
(except the eggs)

Yes, in 7 years you are a complete new old person. Every part that was once you will be removed, recycled, etc...

The personality in your brains is electric current, that changes even faster.
You can be altered by alcohol, chocolate and other things.

Don't believe you are the same, as the things forming you will be forgotten, replaced, etc


Is this based on facts?
If everything is brand new in 7 years then why do we hold onto pain..hurt..memories
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Nov 16, 2017 10:30 AM CST Do we ever change really.
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Duromojon: but, you said, you're deep now


My questioning is deep lol
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Nov 16, 2017 10:32 AM CST Do we ever change really.
Duromojon
DuromojonDuromojonTampa, Florida USA99 Threads 1,224 Posts
Deedee123x: My questioning is deep lol


Oops! is my Englishlaugh
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Nov 16, 2017 10:35 AM CST Do we ever change really.
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
I don't really think we change...
Whatever happens to us brings out another piece of what we are already...
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Nov 16, 2017 10:38 AM CST Do we ever change really.
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
MysteriousGirl80: It's most definitely possible and PTSD being a typical example


Yes I agree....it kind of pees me off when people say that someone can't change...
For some it does take a major life change for this to happen.
For others it takes alot less and just pure willpower to change but I feel it's very possible.
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