Thank you...ur a sweetheart And for what it's worth...ur worth far more than having to be compared with someone else by someone who should have u on a pedestal!! It's damaging to ur self worth...get out while u can. She's not a bad person she's just stuck in the grieving phase.
No your right I wouldn't ever assume I'd replace their mother. I love children and think their earliest years are the most important of their lives and it's the reason I'm anxious not to put a foot wrong on this....yes I agree they are resilient and precious and depending how they r treated and feel they are accepting.. It's them I'm more worried for than their father or my feelings and I will certainly tread very carefully.
I think it might run deeper with this guy. I'm not exactly far removed looks wise from his wife...quite similar. I'm not sure is he "seeing" his wife in me in which case is it me he is even interested in or the possibility of mouldi ngt me into a.second grade her if that makes sense.
Very good point. But what if there are very young children involved...is it ever wise to get involved when they are so young and would obviously miss their mum...it wud break my heart to hurt them by coming in and be seen to replace their mum esp when they r so young
I find myself with the opportunity to date a widower who lost his wife only a year ago.
I do not want to get involved as I feel it's far too soon for him...he has three young kids also. I do care for him but I don't think it's the right time for him. It's a very mucheap push pull feeling at the moment and don't know wat to do for the best.
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RE: I'M JUST GLAD!
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