best explanation so far to me, kid. I couldnt say it better. you have to put yourself at risk so to speek, here as you do in RL, take a chance. nothing ventured nothing gained.
I am one of the people that was of the opinion that you could not fall in love online, or over the phone. I have admited that I was wrong, it truly happened for me. she was and is everything she said she was, I try every day to be what I said I would be for her. I cant explain HOW it happened, just that it did and does.
it wasnt so much who has met in RL, its more people that have found, or are progressing tword "the one" you can be a part of this group, as can owen, and kid just wanted to show that wether here or elseware on the internet people do meet and make things work, sometimes as there are so many people looking we loose sight of the fact that it can work, and say it never works. you never know when, or what you may say that will spark thier interest, so always be true to yourself in all you say and do, even when we can be anything we want on the "net" be yourself and it will come through in your posts and coments, for all to see and apreceate.
ok we have all seen the it hasent worked out thred today and what happens when things dont work out. I am in no way eather taking any sides or having an opinion on it, just thought I would start this thred so people can see that there is a good side to CS and it truly does work, for some. I want the good to be out there too, so that if we have any new people to the forums they can see it. best to everyone in thier day. I am off for now to lunch with my love. will check back on this one later today.
oh and to start the thred off, I met her here in the forums, and now spend my days with her in RL. see it can happen, and I know of others here that it has worked for so speek up
to tell the truth I am not sure it will ever end. we are taught by schools, the government, and in every faccet of life that we deserve and are entitled to so much in life. what we are not taught is this, the way I was raised if you want somthing work hare and you may get it some day. A hard days work for an honest wage. I was raised by parients that did not believe in entitlement, they had to go out and work hard for what they had, and they expected me to do the same. this in my opinion is the problem today, parents just give too much to thier childern, hence the childern expect it in life, to be handed what they want.
this is of corse just my opinion and eveyone has one so please dont be offended by it.
glad to hear this, it may be the first step to a good thing for both of you, how ever it turns out I think it was the right thing to do. I hope it ends well, and keep us updated if you dont mind.
I would stay in contact and see were it goes, it may be the start of rebuilding a relationship with her, she may need someone to talk to. best of luck in your endevors
this depends on each person. I shared a good deal of my past with her, as it makes me who I am, without knowing your past you can not know you. to me I wanted to know all about her, what made her, her, and why. I guess I just want to understand very part of her. for others it may be different.
it can be a natural reaction to things of our past, to fear letting yourself love and be loved. if he is truly the one for you he will understand what you are feeling, stand by you, and help you work through what you need to. I can say for me there were no cold feet on my part, as many of you know I met merky here, and now live in tennessee. and it feels complatly right every day. but the road to here was a long one, getting over my past, accepting it and making peace, so that I could give all of me. the bigest thing for me was that I do not want any "what if's" in my life and if I hadent made the leap this would have been the BIGEST "what if" in my life. I truly hope things work out the best for you.
RE: Say something nice....to just anybody....BE NICEEEEEEEE...
will do, she may be here after a bit, she is missing everyone here.