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Apr 3, 2009 2:52 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
make the first contact with someone on this site? Why?
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Apr 3, 2009 2:53 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Big_John: make the first contact with someone on this site? Why?



I'm not scared...Just old fashioned that way...I don't feel right and like me when I pursue someone...so I don't...wave wink thumbs up
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Apr 3, 2009 2:54 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
I dont "pursue" either..not in a predatory way..

But if I see someone I like the look of, I will have no hesitation in sending a flower, or an email..

Life is too damn short to mess about too much..
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Apr 3, 2009 2:59 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
make the first contact with someone on this site? Why?[/quote


i am shy to make a contact but will later ,looking for a good chance...or just waiting for a nice mail from a nice guy...but if i do he have somethin special in my eyes..wow
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Apr 3, 2009 3:00 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
kellydenise
kellydenisekellydenisecleveland, Ohio USA7 Threads 519 Posts
Big_John: make the first contact with someone on this site? Why?


i am not scared. i just simply wouldn't. i sort of believe that the man should make the first move.
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Apr 3, 2009 3:03 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
Big_John: make the first contact with someone on this site? Why?


Making "First Contact" by a woman to a man, is not being forward! It is simply sending a little sign that you have noticed them..

I consider myself a lady, who always acts in a "ladylike" way, but I would hate to think I missed out on happiness by not sending a simple flower..
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Apr 3, 2009 3:04 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
Snuggs09
Snuggs09Snuggs09Somewhere, New Jersey USA128 Threads 1 Polls 2,615 Posts
Big_John: make the first contact with someone on this site? Why?


No, I've done it many times.
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Apr 3, 2009 3:05 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
So far I am seeing the "old fashsion" rules being applied in this 21th century on an internet dating site.

Guys get off you butt and make contact first.

Ladies I wouldn't wait. Send message, flowers and ecards.
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Apr 3, 2009 3:06 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
I made contact first contact with Slim!wine grin smitten love
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Apr 3, 2009 3:07 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
nfowler
nfowlernfowlernowhere, Washington USA89 Threads 2,634 Posts
Big_John: So far I am seeing the "old fashsion" rules being applied in this 21th century on an internet dating site.

Guys get off you butt and make contact first.

Ladies I wouldn't wait. Send message, flowers and ecards.
John do you mean like actually talk to them and stuff....I am soooo gonna get cootiesuh oh
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Apr 3, 2009 3:08 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
nfowler: John do you mean like actually talk to them and stuff....I am soooo gonna get cooties




rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 3, 2009 3:09 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
nfowler: John do you mean like actually talk to them and stuff....I am soooo gonna get cooties



Nooooooooo you're suppose to pull their hair and punch them in the arm instead so they know ya like them....rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 3, 2009 3:09 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
nfowler: John do you mean like actually talk to them and stuff....I am soooo gonna get cooties


CS tests and gives shots to all the ladies on CS. You are safe dude. Go for it. They are cooties free. Money back guaranteed.
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Apr 3, 2009 3:14 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
Snuggs09
Snuggs09Snuggs09Somewhere, New Jersey USA128 Threads 1 Polls 2,615 Posts
Big_John: So far I am seeing the "old fashsion" rules being applied in this 21th century on an internet dating site.

Guys get off you butt and make contact first.

Ladies I wouldn't wait. Send message, flowers and ecards.


I don't know how to send an ecard but here are some flowers. bouquet

Oh, I guess you want the real flowers from the flowerbox. Well, that's another story John. rolling on the floor laughing I'm an angel and I have to be careful not to get cooties giggle
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Apr 3, 2009 3:24 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
slim1977
slim1977slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA16 Threads 943 Posts
nfowler: John do you mean like actually talk to them and stuff....I am soooo gonna get cooties




eewwww cooties.................uh oh crying devil grin
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Apr 3, 2009 3:33 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Snuggs09: I don't know how to send an ecard but here are some flowers.

Oh, I guess you want the real flowers from the flowerbox. Well, that's another story John. I'm an and I have to be careful not to get cooties


Snuggs ecards are easy to send. Go back to the main menu. It is on the top line over on the right side. Just click on it. Recommend you know someone's profile name. It will ask you for it. Just follow the directions.

Hey send me one. I love mail.
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Apr 3, 2009 3:39 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
In response to: make the first contact with someone on this site? Why?



I'm not scared I don't feel comfortable making the first move. It's also hard for me to tell who's taken and who's not.
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Apr 3, 2009 3:41 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
In response to: make the first contact with someone on this site? Why?


"No,not at all;I'm a straightforward kinda woman..".

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Apr 3, 2009 3:44 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
somechick: I'm not scared I don't feel comfortable making the first move. It's also hard for me to tell who's taken and who's not.


Well SC it isn't scary at all. Nothing bad can happen. He either responds--that good; or he doesn't--that not all bad.

The worst thing you good have happen is that 30 years from now you tell yourself I wish I would have...

Contact someone today.
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Apr 3, 2009 3:45 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
Paradox67
Paradox67Paradox67Collegeville, Pennsylvania USA9 Threads 5 Polls 1,170 Posts
somechick: I'm not scared I don't feel comfortable making the first move. It's also hard for me to tell who's taken and who's not.


Just ask...No harm in that.
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