Ladies are you scared to... ( Archived) (195)

Apr 3, 2009 3:47 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Not at all. I've done it a few times. wine
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Apr 3, 2009 4:11 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
druidess6308: Not at all. I've done it a few times.


Great. thumbs up
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Apr 3, 2009 4:16 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
mexikanska
mexikanskamexikanskaCancún, Quintana Roo Mexico55 Threads 3 Polls 963 Posts
No, im not scare, but till now just some people have liked me, some taken........doh
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Apr 3, 2009 4:20 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
webbs
webbswebbsLexington, Michigan USA3 Threads 283 Posts
nfowler: John do you mean like actually talk to them and stuff....I am soooo gonna get cooties



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Apr 3, 2009 4:22 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
webbs
webbswebbsLexington, Michigan USA3 Threads 283 Posts
somechick: I'm not scared I don't feel comfortable making the first move. It's also hard for me to tell who's taken and who's not.



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I agree
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Apr 3, 2009 4:52 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
HealthyLiving
HealthyLivingHealthyLivingSomewhere In, Tennessee USA527 Threads 2 Polls 4,775 Posts
"You have not because you ask not".professor


Ask...

Hey, maybe the person has not checked profiles in your area and does not know that you exist. It does not hurt to send a flower.
Even to make a new friend. You would not want a relationship with someone you could not be a friend with. It takes time to know someone. Send that flower...
You never know what it may bring to you in return.

bouquet
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Apr 3, 2009 4:58 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
Not scared to....just doesn't seem to be effective for me. I dunno...maybe it's my age - older than the majority here. I really don't have a clue - maybe men in my age group don't like it --- who knows! I still enjoy the fun and entertainment here whether I make a connection or not. bouquet
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Apr 3, 2009 5:42 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
adamisk
adamiskadamiskraleigh, Mississippi USA34 Threads 4 Polls 1,325 Posts
you know the door swings both waysprofessor
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Apr 3, 2009 5:54 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
choppinsman
choppinsmanchoppinsmanmanton, Michigan USA4 Threads 95 Posts
on this site its hard to make the 1st move.

#1 you dont know whos taken or not.

#2 most everyone is so far away.

#3 I'm a shy little boy!

#4 It's hard for us perfect 2's to woo a 10!
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Apr 3, 2009 8:11 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
choppinsman: on this site its hard to make the 1st move.

#1 you dont know whos taken or not.

#2 most everyone is so far away.

#3 I'm a shy little boy!

#4 It's hard for us perfect 2's to woo a 10!


It does not matter who is taken or not. They will tell you.

This is an international site, so be prepare for a long distance relationship.

Nobody should be shy if you are trying to date on the internet.

All 10's are looking the same as us 2's.

Go for it dude. She will respond or not, but you have nothing to lose. Big John philosophy of love: Every beautiful woman is being screwed by some dude who is looking for somebody else tongight. It might be you who will fill that void. Go for it.

Woman will hate me for this. wave
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Apr 3, 2009 8:16 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
df1927
df1927df1927taunton, Massachusetts USA13 Posts
Big_John: make the first contact with someone on this site? Why?
I sure am. I guess for me becuase it's all so new, and you don;t really know if people are who they say they are.help thumbs up handshake
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Apr 3, 2009 8:18 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
I sent a flower to you John as on another site you said you do not get mail......never answered. That is alright the story of my life. No I will not make the first move again to anyone as they never respond.
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Apr 3, 2009 8:19 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
df1927: I sure am. I guess for me becuase it's all so new, and you don;t really know if people are who they say they are.


You have to take a risk. Most people are real. Some are fake. Be careful, but don't let the few bad ones scare you away.
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Apr 3, 2009 8:22 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
In response to: make the first contact with someone on this site? Why?


I usually let someone make first contact with me also but I suppose that it wouldn't be that difficult to flower some people if I was in that place right now.
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Apr 3, 2009 8:24 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
wixomwizard
wixomwizardwixomwizardWixom, Michigan USA35 Threads 3,636 Posts
Dawn7z: I usually let someone make first contact with me also but I suppose that it wouldn't be that difficult to flower some people if I was in that place right now.


Ahhh, there's my sweetie!smitten hug kiss teddybear bouquet
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Apr 3, 2009 8:27 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
choppinsman: on this site its hard to make the 1st move.

#1 you dont know whos taken or not.

#2 most everyone is so far away.

#3 I'm a shy little boy!

#4 It's hard for us perfect 2's to woo a 10!



Hi choppin I agree with your post and know exactly how you feel.
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Apr 3, 2009 8:28 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
df1927: I sure am. I guess for me becuase it's all so new, and you don;t really know if people are who they say they are.


I agree.thumbs up
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Apr 3, 2009 8:29 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
krt4fun
krt4funkrt4funpennock, Minnesota USA411 Posts
I was alway a (shy guy), my job has forced me to come out of my shell. It is harder for me to try and contact someone that is within reasonable distance. than to just say hi to someone that lives farther away.. The fear of rejection isnt there when the chances of meeting are slim..jmo..confused
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Apr 3, 2009 8:29 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
sbear
sbearsbearEast Haven, Connecticut USA4 Threads 119 Posts
Big_John: make the first contact with someone on this site? Why?


Not at all, I've done it several times and made a couple of new friends.
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Apr 3, 2009 8:32 PM CST Ladies are you scared to...
lifesajoy
lifesajoylifesajoySand Fork, West Virginia USA4 Threads 404 Posts
In response to: make the first contact with someone on this site? Why?


Not at all. I made the first contact with hedi and now we will be together forever. bouquet
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