HealthyLivingSomewhere In, Tennessee USA4,775 posts
"You have not because you ask not".
Ask...
Hey, maybe the person has not checked profiles in your area and does not know that you exist. It does not hurt to send a flower. Even to make a new friend. You would not want a relationship with someone you could not be a friend with. It takes time to know someone. Send that flower... You never know what it may bring to you in return.
Not scared to....just doesn't seem to be effective for me. I dunno...maybe it's my age - older than the majority here. I really don't have a clue - maybe men in my age group don't like it --- who knows! I still enjoy the fun and entertainment here whether I make a connection or not.
Big_JohnOPOcean Springs, Mississippi USA9,767 posts
choppinsman: on this site its hard to make the 1st move.
#1 you dont know whos taken or not.
#2 most everyone is so far away.
#3 I'm a shy little boy!
#4 It's hard for us perfect 2's to woo a 10!
It does not matter who is taken or not. They will tell you.
This is an international site, so be prepare for a long distance relationship.
Nobody should be shy if you are trying to date on the internet.
All 10's are looking the same as us 2's.
Go for it dude. She will respond or not, but you have nothing to lose. Big John philosophy of love: Every beautiful woman is being screwed by some dude who is looking for somebody else tongight. It might be you who will fill that void. Go for it.
I sent a flower to you John as on another site you said you do not get mail......never answered. That is alright the story of my life. No I will not make the first move again to anyone as they never respond.
In response to: make the first contact with someone on this site? Why?
I usually let someone make first contact with me also but I suppose that it wouldn't be that difficult to flower some people if I was in that place right now.
Dawn7z: I usually let someone make first contact with me also but I suppose that it wouldn't be that difficult to flower some people if I was in that place right now.
I was alway a (shy guy), my job has forced me to come out of my shell. It is harder for me to try and contact someone that is within reasonable distance. than to just say hi to someone that lives farther away.. The fear of rejection isnt there when the chances of meeting are slim..jmo..
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