I really don't know her but based off her profile, even in her eyes she seems very sincere, caring, a spark of humor, and if she found the right person for her, I'm sure the guy would be lucky to have her!
Instead of making lists of things. I sum it all up to anything that prevents me from being able to be myself or/and prevents me from feeling truely loved.
Unfortunately I too know all too well how it feels to be all alone while in a relationship.
My last ex, I would try to give him a hug and he would just let his arms hang at his side and not hug me back. In bed, I would try to cuddle up next to him and lay my head on his chest/shoulder area with my arm around him and he actually physically pushed me away from him. He would come over to my house and visit me and I'd always have nice dinners prepared for him, ready. He actually admitted that he wouldn't even come over if it wasn't for my "delicious meals" and someone to talk to. But other then that, nothing was there. I was like okay, fine. If this is the way it's going to be, see ya!
You see, I'm a person who ABSOLUTELY loves to give and get affection and when that is missing out of a relationship and you feel like nothing is there and you're each pretty much living yourown life, seperate from each other, well I'd say it's time to fix it or break it. Don't leave it in that limbo stage.
I would say divorce is easier to go through then death because even though a divorce is hard (I've been divorced twice now) like some other people have said, there is hope to healing and perhaps once it is all done and over with, you can become a stronger individual/person. You can learn and grow from a divorce which in return will make you have more to offer the next time round.
Whereas death, that is it. There is no going forward. No second chances. No hope of something better.
Okay everyone, I'm going to post this, go to work tomorrow and come back and see how everyone did!
1. A murderer is condemned to death. He has to choose between three rooms. The first is full of raging fires, the second is full of assassins with loaded guns, and the third is full of lions that haven't eaten in 3 years. Which room is safest for him?
2. A woman shoots her husband. Then she holds him under water for over 5 minutes. Finally, she hangs him. But 5 minutes later they both go out together and enjoy a wonderful dinner together. How can this be?
3. What is black when you buy it, red when you use it, and gray when you throw it away ?
4. Can you name three consecutive days without using the words Wednesday, Friday, or Sunday?
5. This is an unusual paragraph. I'm curious as to just how quickly you can find out what is so unusual about it. It looks so ordinary and plain that you would think n othing was wrong with it. In fact, nothing is wrong with it! It is highly unusual though. Study it and think about it, but you still may not find anything odd. But if you work at it a bit, you might find out. Try to do so without any coaching!
Give up on any or all of them???
I'll check back later and give the answers! Have fun! And NO CHEATING
Considering that I'd feel alone ANYWAY whether I was with or not with someone if they didn't love me.... I'd rather MUCH be alone and lonely by myself. At least that way, I don't have to get tempted to do evil things everyday if I had to look at a loser every morning.
Religion, Perhaps depending on what it was. Satinistism is one I can not allow.
Politics: I don't care what their views are as long as they don't force them onto me! And if they go on and on about something and I start falling asleep, don't get mad okay? LOL
Hmm.... other then that I guess morals or what they agree is crossing the line and what is not when it comes to what they should and should not do with others while in a relationship. Meaning, if one is looking for an open relationship and the other is not,,,, then that's an issue.
If one is a natural flirt and the other is over jealous or insecure then that's an issue.... right???? Just to clarify I am not looking for an open relationship but am a natural flirt sometimes so .....
"I know I am overweight, but I am currently working on it. But I am so tired of guys judging me because of it. Just because I am overweight doesn't mean I am some nasty, negative person. I am pretty positive and a fun loving person. "
Well I must say that people judge people for a great variety of reasons. For me, it's being divorced twice with three kids by three different fathers and I'm only 26. They don't take time to get to know me or find out why I ended up the way I did and don't care about the goals I have with going back to college and still having a career while taking care of my children. People are shallow. What more is there to say?
Unimportant and nothing but an inconvenience and burden to everyone while I'm going through my difficult times, although it's pretty funny that when they need something, they still expect me to be there for them even though they are not there for me..... that is not going to work!
Nagging is for insecure juveniles who have nothing else better to do. If you have a problem with someone or something, fix it! Deal with it! Don't just complain about it! That is one of my pet peeves Can you tell? Sorry, I just hate whinners. That is exactly why (amongst other reasons but it added to it) I got rid of my ex husband! I hate drama! 0 tolorance for unneeded drama!
There are definately too many people who think they are Mr or Mrs Right and way to judgemental. I, on the other hand can admit when I am not right about something (which is alot of the times! LOL) plus I like to learn what makes a person the way they are and why they believe what they do. That is what makes someone interesting. If you take that away, what will we all be then? Robots?
I grew up on 40 acres in the mountains on what some people say was where Native Americans lived that became a Buriel Ground/battleground. I always saw and heard strange things day and night time growing up there as a child.
Would always go exploring through the woods and find interesting things such as huge rocks that were flat on top that would have holes almost like shaped for a purpose of food prep and rocks that looked like they could of been used and shaped like chairs from a long time ago. Who knows, maybe it was all a coincidence but still interesting especially when my dad discovered a hidden spring that you could tell had rocks covering over it that were hand laid.
I still climb/repell down the cliffs and hike up the mountain for breath taking views as I LOVE nature and photography.
RE: Can a person truly change
Totally!