Shanmariee Forum Posts

Aug 23, 2008

RE: Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............

Sounds good to me!

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Aug 23, 2008

RE: Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............

well good luck on that! I know that you are nice to all the ladies here!

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Aug 23, 2008

RE: Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............

Okay Okay that's fair!

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Aug 23, 2008

RE: Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............

awwe you are too sweet Des!

I think the color wore off from last night so it needs to be replaced!

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Aug 23, 2008

RE: Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............

It's all good, nice to be back here!

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Aug 23, 2008

RE: Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............

hahaha

I dont need anyone to take care of me. I can take care of myself. I am not looking for someone to provide for me. I want someone to provide WITH me.

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Aug 23, 2008

RE: Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............

Thank you Des! You always bring a smile to my face

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Aug 22, 2008

RE: Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............

Thank you , I hope so too. Regarding not meeting the same kind of person, I hope I don't but you see, they are very good at pretending to be the one they know you want them to be, for years sometimes, such as this one. Then all of a sudden, you wake up and you feel like you're laying in bed next to a stranger. Who is this that has come to replace the one you loved you may ask yourself only to have no answer.

I am not giving up and I am more cautious yet not ruined and definately not all boggled down with "baggage" from it. For it did the opposite. Instead of feeling sorry for myself, it gave me strength and the confidence that I lacked before perhaps, that I can have a life and take care of myself 100% on my own. I dont need anyone to take care of me or to rely on anyone but myself. I would almost thank him for that ..... almost. But thanks for the encouragement!

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Aug 22, 2008

RE: Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............

Unfortunately my heart has yet to feel what it is like to be truely loved. I hope to someday find it. People have a tendancy to say alot yet deliver little. My last marriage was very violent. I refuse to allow anyone to ever ever ever hurt me the way he did. I am not going to allow it to keep my hope from allowing me to find someone who I know is out there somewhere to give me what I know I deserve. I just have to be patient and take it one day at a time. Someday I know I'll be in my love's arms and he in mine.

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Aug 22, 2008

RE: weekend plans

My son and I are going to go over to my parent's place cause they have 40 acres in the mountains and go on a big hike I think then the next day spend all day in the sun at the lake chasing the shade with our sitting blankets and cooler lol I can't wait! I love doing activities with him!

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Aug 22, 2008

RE: Long Distance Relationships

Well I have met two men from the internet this year and both did the same thing. One was from here and one was from a different site. They put on a good caring commerical sales pitch presentation of themselves, and we talk via online chat, webcam, telephone and email and gradually arrange a date to meet in person. They flew into Spokane here, and we met, had a wonderful 5 days together, then they went home and at first we would chat as usual saying how we missed each other ect... but then about a month afterwards, they slowly start declining in their email and telephone calls. Next thing I know, I hardly hear from them. Then I dont hear from them at all.

If someone doesn't want to be with me, that is completely fine. That is their choice, I dont even care what the reason is. The only thing that pisses me off is why don't they grow a pear and be mature enough to be upfront and honest like they say they are in their profiles, and tell me outright that they changed their mind. Why do they just fade away like cowards? I told the second one what happened during the first experience and he of course reassured me that he would not do that. That he was different and he would prove it to me and show me. Well I tried to believe him but it's a good thing I didn't cause he did the exact same thing the first one did.

I am now here mainly to chat with people. I haven't expected much from these sites anyway.

Of course this is just my experience. I'm sure others have better ones. I know afew on here that have met and are engaged to people they met through here and that is great! It just hasn't seemed to work for me. Which I am perfectly fine with.

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Aug 22, 2008

RE: Never mind how much you can tell from a picture read the forum and you know all.

I must say that most the time I am simply being myself. But also as mentioned already by another, is I too, sit back and bite my tongue persay sometimes for the same reason, not worth arguing. We are all here to find some sort of relationship whether it is people to chat with or more. Talking to people online, you should already have an idea what you are getting yourself into. A little bit of everything. Liars, users, sincerity, and honest people. I think the only way to truely know someone is away from the internet.

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Aug 22, 2008

RE: Instant Messenger on CS

Just real quick,seriously, I'm not that easy! hahaha Nice try.

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Aug 22, 2008

RE: Instant Messenger on CS

Hi Enduro! Hope you are having a good evening. I am going to lay down in my waterbed and relax.

Everyone! I'm

so got to go rest.

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Aug 22, 2008

RE: What song are you listening to,part three.

Fly ~ REO Speedwagon

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Aug 22, 2008

RE: Instant Messenger on CS

I thought that is what a cell was for....hhmm....

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Aug 22, 2008

RE: Instant Messenger on CS

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Aug 22, 2008

RE: Instant Messenger on CS

I have my IM turned off cause I got tired of people trying to chat with me that I didn't know or perhaps had no interest in talking to. Of course I have my profile setting set to where only certain people from certain countries can see it. Most countries are blocked though. Simply to avoid outrageous marriage proposals that I first got when I started here lol

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Aug 21, 2008

RE: What song are you listening to,part three.

If Everyone Cared ~ Nickelback

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Aug 21, 2008

RE: What song are you listening to,part three.

Frozen ~ Within Temptation

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Aug 21, 2008

RE: What song are you listening to,part three.

I'm the only one ~ Melissa Ethridge

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Aug 21, 2008

RE: Say Something ....... No Need Name Lames

Anytime! Glad I was able to make you smile

Oh and wouldn't be fair to leave one cheek colorful and one not, so here's one for the other cheek!

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Aug 21, 2008

RE: Say Something ....... No Need Name Lames

Thank you Des! You are a really nice and wonderful person yourself! Missed talking to you!

Think you needed a little color on your cheek! haaha

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Aug 21, 2008

RE: Say Something ....... No Need Name Lames

Well I have decided to come back and talk to my friends that I missed talking to and so far people have been very nice in welcoming me back. Missed you all!

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Aug 21, 2008

RE: What song are you listening to,part TRZY!

Girlfriend (remix) ~ Avril Lavigne

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Aug 21, 2008

RE: What song are you listening to,part TRZY!

CandyShop ~ 50 Cent

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Aug 21, 2008

RE: Hey I'm New

Hi Krystine!

Good Luck on here!

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Aug 21, 2008

RE: Revealing Your True Self

I definately agree with you. I do not know why it is viewed as bad. I dont. I see it as a way of growth. Within one's ownself to discover things about themselves. It is also the only way to find the one that is going to work and be right for you. If we dont try to date, how are we going to find the one that we will eventually be with?

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Aug 21, 2008

RE: Revealing Your True Self

Those are good questions. I think it's the whole get caught up with the first phraze of attraction that they dont think clearly what is beneath that. Who is this real person? They just like how they feel at first and go on that, then when the spark starts fading they leave. I've seen this over and over again with my friends. They say they are careful and cautious but that is not enough. Where is effort? No one seems to want to put forth any effort to make a good relationship. They ride what they can of it and leave it seems.

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Aug 21, 2008

RE: "LIFE", is a one way journey

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RE: Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............

RE: Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............

RE: Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............

RE: Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............

RE: Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............

RE: Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............

RE: Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............

RE: Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............

RE: Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............

RE: weekend plans

RE: Long Distance Relationships

RE: Never mind how much you can tell from a picture read the forum and you know all.

RE: Instant Messenger on CS

RE: Instant Messenger on CS

RE: What song are you listening to,part three.

RE: Instant Messenger on CS

RE: Instant Messenger on CS

RE: Instant Messenger on CS

RE: What song are you listening to,part three.

RE: What song are you listening to,part three.

RE: What song are you listening to,part three.

RE: Say Something ....... No Need Name Lames

RE: Say Something ....... No Need Name Lames

RE: Say Something ....... No Need Name Lames

RE: What song are you listening to,part TRZY!

RE: What song are you listening to,part TRZY!

RE: Hey I'm New

RE: Revealing Your True Self

RE: Revealing Your True Self

RE: "LIFE", is a one way journey

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