Thanks for taking the time to write it. As others have already said, it is very well written. I think almost everyone will agree with it. It's the whole immediate attraction then fizzle. People get caught up in the first initial lustful feelings wanting to call it love, because that is what they sooo desire it to be, then wonder why later all of a sudden (or it seems to them, but it's been gradual almost from day one) there's almost nothing there. Like you say, the differences start coming out and then what? Yes, they walk away. People want the immediate love. They get impatient and try to rush into things. When they rush it, it breaks, because it does not have enough strength to endure what is to come later, disappointment.
Sorry! There was no pink on the list hmm... let's see if I can find something for you!
Pink:
This color embodies the gentler qualities of Red, symbolizing love and affection without passion. Women who prefer Pink tend to be maternal. Pink desires protection, special treatment and a sheltered life. Pink people require affection and like to feel loved and secure, perhaps wanting to appear delicate and fragile. Pink people tend to be charming and gentle, if a trifle indefinite.
Okay so I kinda screwed up ~ Oh well no one's perfect. You can still select what your favorite color is and see what that says about your personality. I'll be the first to laugh at myself!
Wow I dont know which would be worse either....hmm.... Probably the guy with tiny hands for at least you already know what to expect when you clean your house
My condolences to all who is suffering due to this unfortunate and tragic event. My heart goes out to all of you. Just be there for each other and through time, each day will become clearer and brighter and the sun will shine once again for you!
It is really hard I think for the single parents like myself to make that decision. On one hand, you want to live together to make sure you can live in a "everyday life style" and work together efficiently and get along and not get on each other's nerves etc.
However, it is also not good to have the kids get attached to someone for them then to turn around and disappear on the kids. The kids can then grow up with attachment, abandonment and other emotional issues.
I would say that if neither has kids and is careful on not getting pregnant too soon, then go for it. No harm right? But if there are kids involved, wait longer before living together if you feel you must.
You know, if life didn't give you disappointments once in a while, then you wouldn't appreciate all the things that do go good for you in your life. It also sounds like you have some other larger issue that comes from deep within that needs to be addressed. If you don't then you will never have the strength or self confidence that is required to enable a healthy relationship in your future.
Also, if she was just blowing you off, then you should thank her for ending it now instead of later and wasting your time on her. Obviously in this scenerio, she is not the one for you and you need to be glad that you didn't put more into the "relationship" then what you already have, if you really want to call it one.
If it was really behind you, then you would not be in search of her side of the story. Your curiosity is driving you crazy as to who she is or what happened for sure. You know what they say, curiosity kills the cat and it will kill you too. Kill your personality, kill the chance for you to shine again to your full potential if you dont just acknowelge that for whatever reason she did this to you and put you through the ringer, and you need to just accept the fact of what's been done and that you will NEVER really know the truth or her real side to her story anyway. Even if she contacted you, she's lied countless times, how can you now, expect any truth from her at all? Let this go and move on!
If you like to cook, how about pasta with sauce under a fully seasoned chicken breast, topped with a little more sauce, cheese and parmeasean? If you like something like that, that is. ???
A person born in the Year of the Rat is said to be clever and intelligent. They are self-confident and have an optimistic outlook on life. They work hard to reach their goals and are considered perfectionists. When it comes to money matters they are rather careful even stingy and usually don't lend money. They match persons born in the Year of the Dragon, the Year of the Monkey or the Ox.
Also Happy Early Birthday! Otherwise I know I'll totally miss it when it is your birthday! LOL
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Just an observer ~ lol
RE: Revealing Your True Self
Thanks for taking the time to write it. As others have already said, it is very well written. I think almost everyone will agree with it. It's the whole immediate attraction then fizzle. People get caught up in the first initial lustful feelings wanting to call it love, because that is what they sooo desire it to be, then wonder why later all of a sudden (or it seems to them, but it's been gradual almost from day one) there's almost nothing there. Like you say, the differences start coming out and then what? Yes, they walk away. People want the immediate love. They get impatient and try to rush into things. When they rush it, it breaks, because it does not have enough strength to endure what is to come later, disappointment.