What I meant to say and didn't make sense is the there is a diversity or people in all nations these days. Many of us have roots right here or part of our roots here as we tend to be a mixture of different nationalities.
A lot of us do have roots from all over the world and I would imagine a lot of countries are like that now, but "style" is subjective and I think probably there are as many Americans and other Continents as Europeans. Obviously that is your preference and what exactly are you referring to as related to style? Clothing, how the person carries themselves, personality or all of the above?
This thread really can be applied beyond gender and across types of relationships to dealing with those things in all of us that keep us from connecting with others. Yeah we can cocoon ourselves in and sometimes we need a down times because no else is going to be able to deal with our stuff. Hopefully we don't try to take those issues forward into the next relationship but give ourselves time to recognize what is going on so that we don't repeat perhaps choosing the same type of person again. Trust really is a choice all of it is. It takes a lot of guts to open up to others and let them in our lives after we have been hurt.
You are right. "love happens and then what list". It's cool to have it in our minds what we want but have to be careful or we might pass up some really great people because they don't quite fit into our "idea" of the perfect mate. Funny it's really about chemistry can talk online all you want but until you have that first meeting and it's goes fine, then the first kiss and it goes well then the first disagreement better to put the list under the mattress. We all have things that we won't tolerate but then again we are coming together with others who have their own lists lol. good luck.
Hey with that bikini Lela you shouldn't be laughing. Would you be offended if I said I think your face pictures are wonderful. Even so you are just having too much fun in the last couple of days.
Don't change the subject Hugz I have seen how feisty you can be. This is about you and a guy not me. I am already sticking my nose into these forums enough as it is. No guys for me only as friends but you are ready girl so get out there dang it.
Yeah Hugz he talked to you directly if I remember so flower him girl or a teddy bear. take a big ol swig of eggnog and get on it. Click on flower click on send boop there you go lol. dare you too.
Hey wait a second Jenny. You were asking people to be matchmakers. Have you contacted him? Is it someone you talk with? what can it hurt to send a little flower or a teddy bear and see what happens?
You don't have to be quiet Rexus this is a peaceful interchange of ideas the only time I get feisty is when people are abusive. Please have your say its all in good fun.
I think a lot of women get upset when a man portrays himself as really into that woman but he is playing the field not so much when he is upfront. Look how we helped you to start you own list. lol
If everyone clicked with everyone then it wouldn't be special would it? So volume is sometimes the key and in the midst of one of those dates you might find the one you click with. Just keep going out with fun in mind rather than a serious relationship. You want someone who is right for you that will appreciate the many lovely things about you as a person.
Well Dawn I have visited Colorado but not through the local spots want to show me around...lol[/quot
Brat don't you have quite a few other spots to visit Bob then come here and I will be your tour guide tons of gorgeous women in Colorado. I will fix you up reeeeel gud. lol
RE: Cultural differences
What I meant to say and didn't make sense is the there is a diversity or people in all nations these days. Many of us have roots right here or part of our roots here as we tend to be a mixture of different nationalities.