Do you always go where you're invited? Is it possible to choose someone that is not looking to ground you into dust and you both are just looking to sensibly protect yourself?
Been there and done that. Worked out just fine. Is it supposed to be some sort of big deal? If you're going to go through with the marriage contract then why wouldn't you each want to agree to protect your assets?
RE: Last to post wins
You'll have to be more specific. There's more than one of those in the CS forums.