I just had this disagreement with my youngest(16) last week.
His reply to me asking,repeadidly to put theseat down was,"why is we have to put the seat down and not you's(females) don't have to put the seat down"............. *shaking head icon*
Yes,there are woman "players" as well and the same rule applys,one can only do to another what one allows to happen.
Its a confident issue for those being "played" ,and for others like being,shall I say"submisive to the "player",either way,you can't complain about something you have the ability to change.
RE: Help me make this decision
Leave it be,he may just make a mountain out of a mole hole over anything you say.Its a tough one your right about that...