it may be anything. The main issue is how much we react and how much we tolerate. It is clear that everyone has both flaws and virtues. Instead of reacting to each other's flaws, remove them from your virtues and tolerate the flaws that remain.
Perfect man and perfect woman is a myth. Perfect match and perfect life is a myth. So it is better to increase our tolerance and decrease our reactivity. Our reactive nature can make us judgmental.
By spraying insecticides, a vegetarian diet is saved for humans by killing billions of insects, rats. Today maybe every food is killing food. This does not mean that now vegetarians will start eating meat. One who eats food has its own logic and justification.
yes definitely. Similarly, some nature of the male can also become a cause of trouble for the female.
Some qualities will attract you and some will have to be tolerated by you.
If male and female want to be in relation, then strengthen their tolerance. no one is perfect and pure. Every human has both virtues and flaws. If you always avoid people for thier flaws and mistakes, then you will have to spend your life alone. Remember that you have also flaws. And someone else tolerates your flaws.
That's no excuse for not even making an effort, Decent. The behavior we expect from others for ourselves, we should treat others the same way.
If we talk about women, then she should also behave as she expects from others. This applies equally to both man and woman.
Because nature has given different qualities and responsibilities to male and female, so there will be some differences in their behavior. it just need to understand each other.
for example: Nature has made a female of a choosy nature so that she can give better things to the new generation (better gene, better accommodation, better nutrition, better future). This nature of her can be seen in everything she does, now whether to buy something or choose a partner.
Don't expect this choosy nature of a female to change, natural qualities can not be changed.
Sometimes we are not able to behave according to our own wish. for example: An angry man always wants to improve his angry behavior but every time when he gets angry, he can not stop himself and behaves badly. When we are not able to control our own behavior according to our own wishes, then how can we expect the behavior of others according to our wishes.
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