Do you understand the gestures of love? How to know by someone's activities that he/she is in love with you? How to check whether it is love, attraction, lust, or something else?
Good and bad both are part of our life. Bad is not always so bad, how bad it will be depends on our attitude towards it. Sometimes a normal 'bad' becomes a big 'bad' with the help of our continuous thinking about it. To get out of this, I mostly resort to meditation techniques.
The physical eyes see and value physical beauty, the inner eyes see and value inner beauty. Now it depends on the beholder which eyes he/she gives more importance to. One thing looks beautiful to some and looks ugly to another. If the beholder finds in you, what he/she is searching for then you are beautiful for him/her.
What is luck from your point of view?
What you have got very easily, many do not get it even after hard work.