It is very important to recognize the difference between good-will and ill-will, but the problem is our own ill-will seems like good-will. Everyone finds their desire healthy.
It's hard to draw the line between need and greed, greed seems like need. But when your desire start snatching someone else's needs, then definitely it will be called greed, then there is a need to reconsider your desire.
As long as wanting is in the borderline of need, it is not greed. But the boundary line of need is different for everyone, we have to decide it ourselves.
Nature has made men and women diametrically opposite to each other in many things. There are many situations in life where different qualities are needed, sometimes strength is needed, sometimes tenderness, sometimes patience is needed, sometimes there is urgency, sometimes emotion and sometimes intellect. Together, both can face the difficult situations of life with the help of each other's qualities.
Nature has made men and women superior in different qualities. What gave less to men, gave more to women and what gave less to women, gave more to men. Both have been made incomplete so that both can be complete together. Just need understanding in both.
men's feelings are like a fire in dry grass, it flares up very quickly and burns out very quickly. Women's feelings are like a fire in thick wood, which neither flares up quickly nor extinguishes quickly.
'need' makes you feel 'want' and 'want' makes you feel 'need'. When 'want' cross the boundary line of need, it turns need into greed. As the greed increases, the need also increases along with it. Our greed seems like a need. How to know whether this 'want' stems from greed or need? How to reconcile 'want' and need so that it does not turn into greed? how to set the boundary for need? How to differentiate want, need and greed?
But sometimes telling problem to the right person can solve it. If you can't find the right person and hesitate to tell someone then put your problems as a common problem on the blog and forum, many people will put their views on this, maybe one of them will give you the right solution.
Well both see many other things also, but their attention is more on this. women want men with bright future while men want women with clear past. Maybe not all people think like that but most of do so.
there are many, i just mentioned only two as a example. it is not so typical to understand that there can be many bad habits in our daily routine which we take lightly.
deep contemplation on want, need and greed.
It is very important to recognize the difference between good-will and ill-will, but the problem is our own ill-will seems like good-will. Everyone finds their desire healthy.