I have two friends that have been dating for a while. The guy is a compassionate, decent man. I would have to assume this is at least part of what attracted her to him in the first place. Recently, his x called in the middle of the night. She was drunk and in a potentially dangerous situation with another guy. He went out and rescued her and took her home. Nothing else happened between them.(Belive me , I know) His new girl freind was furious. It was the very compassionate and caring nature that attracted her to him that ended up pissing her off. Isn't that suprizing how the very things that attract us to people can, at the same time annoy us. I thought this might shed some light on the "nice guy" disscussion. Hope that didn't sound condesending.
I'm new to the online dating /search chat/ rejection/whatever you want to call this stuff. Let's just say that I begin e-mailing back and forth with someone and she seems to be a reasonable fit for at least a luncch or dinner date. What is the appropriate lenth of time before more concrete type of communication could begin? Phone calls. Maybe this instant message stuff has a place. I don't know how it works. I understand that women need to play things very safe and the last thing I would want to do is put off a potential nice girl with an inappropriate inquiry. I hope this is a question for this venue. I understand this one is screaming for wise cracks but I'm serious.
ummmm-maybe I've never experienced that faking bussiness. After all I don't do anything fast. It took me 20 minutes to type this. then again I am divorced.
bob1959 Forum Posts (1,874)
RE: Chatting Up Chicks
I just sit at the bar licking my eyebrows. Seems to work.