I do not like violence but i will get violent if someone goes there first with me , if i am out with a man and he continuously touches me after two warnings not (in da lady parts lol) then yeaha lil smack will drive the point home don't touch unless u wanna get touched back or if a man hit me then yeah i would definitly smack him, sorry but i think if you r man if to hit me then u r man enough to take a hit.
Hey Phillipa Firstly sorry for your loss, I went through something similar with my ex and my grandmother died.The hurt and betrayal of what my ex did haunted me for many years and when my grandmother died as much as i was there for him in the 6 yrs we were together, he abandoned me. I held on to the pain and resentment for many years after but one day I went to church and I realized that letting go of him would only happen if i truely forgave him in my heart, and I did. Am i mad ? Yes. Have I forgiven him? Yes. the pain of my grandmother's passing is not so easy I still hurt when i get some good news and pick up the phone to call then remember i cannot.I don't believe it ever goes away, it's been 3 yrs and still but you can't have peace till you make peace within your self. Stay strong
i have asked the question before but my reason has been the man i am dating is giving me mixed signals. example you are saying the right things but your actions are conflicting so i start ignoring you and you start demanding more so i ask what do you want from me , more or less it is the deal breaker for me if you say i want something with youand i bring it to your attntion that you are not behaving like that is what you want then I will bring it to your attention. If no change in your behavior occurs then you will be Xed in a hurry. what is that saying "drop the zero to find a hero" this is just my reason for asking and i must make it clear i only ask if i am getting mixed signals. HOPE IT HELPS
For me it would depend on the severity i dated a man that walked with a limp, he had been shot in the leg years ago, it never bothered me and apparently it did not bother him either cause i caught him cheating .... the limp are sometimes not soooo LIMP......lol well you live and learn
DUHH SO RIGHT AND WE WOMEN OBVIOUSLY DO LIKE QUESTIONSWhat are your measurements, because it is completely not stupid,arrogant,pretentious or loaded. Whatis good for the goose should be fine for the gander.
I agree women do as lie as well especially about their age but i just think that i have seen many men post about why Women lie Without saying hey we MEN lie too
Well Mindfull, Sorry you are hurting. I am truely but speaking from the point of the child who is now an adult , I have been where she is and can tell you that she knows you care but she needs space to do what she know how to do ... which is emotionally survive. My mother does not get it either and after years of arguements it has lead to me cutting her off emotionally because she cannot get the fact that what she thinks of as not coping IS coping the Only way I know how to. I am sure it hurts to see her hurt but trust me judging her way of coping is not a good idea, instead tell her you care,want to help her any way you can and will be ready when ever she is ready ..... I think this will help her let you in emotionally instead of trying to fight you off. Good Luck
I have seen a post or two on here about why women lie about their age. How about why do men lie about their height? Or about if they are dating other women? To me it seems like they hate being lied to but have little problem lying to women.
I do believe that New Yorkers are extremely busy people and life here is hectic, however I believe a person that truly wants a committed relationship should make time for the relationship or not be in one period.
Well I think you are right to be honest about how many kids and the people that bash you without knowing the story are judgemental and you are probably better off without knowing them.Just ignore and be patient. Lots of luck
RE: ladies..would u ever smuck a man on the face?
I do not like violence but i will get violent if someone goes there first with me , if i am out with a man and he continuously touches me after two warnings not (in da lady parts lol) then yeaha lil smack will drive the point home don't touch unless u wanna get touched back or if a man hit me then yeah i would definitly smack him, sorry but i think if you r man if to hit me then u r man enough to take a hit.