Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"? ( Archived) (54)

Aug 3, 2010 6:08 PM CSTWhy do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan, Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts

Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?(Vote Below)

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To know your intrntion
38
57%
To say they are not interested
15
22%
To be able to give you what you want
6
9%
To say they are in love with you
8
12%
Total Votes
67
In one way or the other, men face the challenges of answering this question almost every woman ask. I have answered this question a million times over and over and over again, so i know every man also face similar thing. So lets hear from both sides and be realistic. Women why do u ask this question and men how best have you answered this question?
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Aug 3, 2010 6:59 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
joyannie
joyanniejoyannieA little closer to heaven, Colorado USA5 Threads 408 Posts
I do not believe I have ever asked this question, certainly not in a personal relationship.

To me it sounds like a defensive reaction to not being treated well by that person.

The begining of the end.uncertain
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Aug 3, 2010 7:02 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
Aug 3, 2010 7:05 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
I seen Maureen O"Hara shouting that in a film once ,i didnt have a clue iether laugh
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Aug 3, 2010 7:08 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
joyannie
joyanniejoyannieA little closer to heaven, Colorado USA5 Threads 408 Posts
Sebastino: In one way or the other, men face the challenges of answering this question almost every woman ask. I have answered this question a million times over and over and over again, so i know every man also face similar thing. So lets hear from both sides and be realistic. Women why do u ask this question and men how best have you answered this question?


You have been asked and answered this question, you say over a million times?

What does that say to you?

Maybe you are expecting too much, too soon.
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Aug 3, 2010 7:59 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts
joyannie: You have been asked and answered this question, you say over a million times?

What does that say to you?

Maybe you are expecting too much, too soon.

Not exactly, even when i am doing right, everything working perfectly well. As soon as soon as things get intense, the woman will ask me what exactly do i want from her.
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Aug 3, 2010 8:01 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
joyannie
joyanniejoyannieA little closer to heaven, Colorado USA5 Threads 408 Posts
Sebastino: Not exactly, even when i am doing right, everything working perfectly well. As soon as soon as things get intense, the woman will ask me what exactly do i want from her.

What do you mean by intense?confused
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Aug 3, 2010 8:30 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
Sebastino: Not exactly, even when i am doing right, everything working perfectly well. As soon as soon as things get intense, the woman will ask me what exactly do i want from her.


ever wondered how they read your energy and body language... what ever your thoughts, feelings and actions are and how accountable you are of those 3 things within yourself will determine and dictate how you are coming across cos it will definitely effect your energy and body language which in turn sends messages... so going by how women ask this question "what do you want from me" according to your experiences... you r either being way to demanding or are associating with women who r afraid to commit... or a 3rd scenario... you r being way to demanding which has the women you r associating with react in a afraid to commit tone due to being overwhelmed... ARRRR!! what do I know dunno JMO and just putting it out there since you asked the question Sebastino grin wine
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Aug 3, 2010 8:32 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
joyannie: What do you mean by intense?


popcorn popcorn popcorn popcorn popcorn
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Aug 3, 2010 8:35 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
conjor
conjorconjorSmithfield, North Carolina USA61 Threads 2,056 Posts
Sebastino: Not exactly, even when i am doing right, everything working perfectly well. As soon as soon as things get intense, the woman will ask me what exactly do i want from her.
Shje allready knows what you want silly;She is testing yoiu to see if you are honest about it.handshake conversing
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Aug 3, 2010 10:58 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts
conjor: Shje allready knows what you want silly;She is testing yoiu to see if you are honest about it.

I think i agree with u dude, i feel thesame way about that.
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Aug 3, 2010 11:01 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
anonymous1
anonymous1anonymous1Hawaii, USA10 Threads 1 Polls 1,649 Posts
Sebastino: In one way or the other, men face the challenges of answering this question almost every woman ask. I have answered this question a million times over and over and over again, so i know every man also face similar thing. So lets hear from both sides and be realistic. Women why do u ask this question and men how best have you answered this question?





How should I know why women do that?

I'm a man!

What do you want from me?


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Aug 3, 2010 11:04 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts
mariespoodles: ever wondered how they read your energy and body language... what ever your thoughts, feelings and actions are and how accountable you are of those 3 things within yourself will determine and dictate how you are coming across cos it will definitely effect your energy and body language which in turn sends messages... so going by how women ask this question "what do you want from me" according to your experiences... you r either being way to demanding or are associating with women who r afraid to commit... or a 3rd scenario... you r being way to demanding which has the women you r associating with react in a afraid to commit tone due to being overwhelmed... ARRRR!! what do I know JMO and just putting it out there since you asked the question Sebastino

Yeah, but i am afraid because even my gf ask me this same question a year ago before with broke up. I think in my own view it simply means they are already in love with you, so they just want to know your mind, and if you feel thesame way for them since women are most times passive, so do not show there intention in action.
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Aug 3, 2010 11:25 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
Because they want to control you in hopes that you'll lie and say anything other than what we know women are good for ...dunno





Ewwwwww.........giggle hole
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Aug 3, 2010 11:29 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts
jvaski: Because they want to control you in hopes that you'll lie and say anything other than what we know women are good for ... Ewwwwww.........

oh yeah...
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Aug 4, 2010 4:31 AM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Sebastino: In one way or the other, men face the challenges of answering this question almost every woman ask. I have answered this question a million times over and over and over again, so i know every man also face similar thing. So lets hear from both sides and be realistic. Women why do u ask this question and men how best have you answered this question?

Its actually a trick question, Women don`t , even expect you to be honest....grin
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Aug 4, 2010 4:39 AM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
Sebastino: In one way or the other, men face the challenges of answering this question almost every woman ask. I have answered this question a million times over and over and over again, so i know every man also face similar thing. So lets hear from both sides and be realistic. Women why do u ask this question and men how best have you answered this question?


A million times?? You've dated the female population of a small city, and you're still puzzled?

Hm, let me see: if I shouted the question, it would mean "get lost"; but if I said it in a seductive voice while you're snuggling up behind me in bed, I'd expect some moderately dirty talk followed by the appropriate action...
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Aug 4, 2010 4:53 AM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
Ladybee42
Ladybee42Ladybee42East Liverpool, Ohio USA4 Threads 1,316 Posts
Sebastino: In one way or the other, men face the challenges of answering this question almost every woman ask. I have answered this question a million times over and over and over again, so i know every man also face similar thing. So lets hear from both sides and be realistic. Women why do u ask this question and men how best have you answered this question?



i said it a couple of times to my ex...when no matter what i said in a conversation satisfied. so i got tired of going over everything again and again as he clearly wasn't listening to the answers!
those words came out of me because all the other words i'd used weren't getting us anywhere!dunno dunno
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Aug 4, 2010 11:15 AM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts
Ladybee42: i said it a couple of times to my ex...when no matter what i said in a conversation satisfied. so i got tired of going over everything again and again as he clearly wasn't listening to the answers!
those words came out of me because all the other words i'd used weren't getting us anywhere!

That is a good response from your own experience. Some people think you must have dated a million women to be asked this question but honestly speaking, you can be asked thesame question by thesame woman over and over again. What trick me most is that...some women already know what your up to but they still go ahead and ask you this question. Is it right?
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Aug 9, 2010 11:49 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
BarbarafromTx
BarbarafromTxBarbarafromTxSan Antonio, Texas USA3 Threads 153 Posts
I have asked that question several times. Reason; the man I was seeing each time was very confusing....how else am I going to know.....lol. Dumped them each time once they answered.
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Aug 10, 2010 3:16 AM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts
BarbarafromTx: I have asked that question several times. Reason; the man I was seeing each time was very confusing....how else am I going to know.....lol. Dumped them each time once they answered.

lol, oh yeah. i have learnt my lesson
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Aug 10, 2010 3:18 AM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
I dont ask that
I ask
What do you expect from ME!!!!!!wink grin wave
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Aug 10, 2010 6:08 AM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
gardenhackle
gardenhacklegardenhackleStratford, Connecticut USA55 Threads 9 Polls 2,067 Posts
I'm guessing it usually happens if they feel they're being pressured and are frustrated. It think it's their way of bringing it to a head to deal with it.

There could be times when a woman might ask that early on as just a way of trying to see what a man expects and tone would be different, inquisitive and not defensive. This isn't the most likely possibility, though, in my opinion.
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Aug 10, 2010 6:30 AM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
ybfayl
ybfaylybfaylBrisbane, Queensland Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 589 Posts
Sebastino: In one way or the other, men face the challenges of answering this question almost every woman ask. I have answered this question a million times over and over and over again, so i know every man also face similar thing. So lets hear from both sides and be realistic. Women why do u ask this question and men how best have you answered this question?
steak, beer & the other thing blushing




laugh
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Aug 10, 2010 1:16 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts
scottyburd: I dont ask that
I ask
What do you expect from ME!!!!!!

ok but why do you ask what a man expect from you?
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Aug 10, 2010 3:08 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
Sebastino: ok but why do you ask what a man expect from you?


It was just a wee joke Seb...wave
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Aug 10, 2010 3:14 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
Sebastino: In one way or the other, men face the challenges of answering this question almost every woman ask. I have answered this question a million times over and over and over again, so i know every man also face similar thing. So lets hear from both sides and be realistic. Women why do u ask this question and men how best have you answered this question?


Because you do our heads in! and play a real stupid game at times!!!okcomfort
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Aug 10, 2010 3:21 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
bradlee1
bradlee1bradlee1sliema, Majjistral Malta29 Threads 2 Polls 690 Posts
englishelegance: Because you do our heads in! and play a real stupid game at times!!!ok
they just want you to treat them well. and respect them. however, this has to come from both sides. or else its just a stale matewave
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Aug 10, 2010 5:45 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts
bradlee1: they just want you to treat them well. and respect them. however, this has to come from both sides. or else its just a stale mate

my oh my....i know it is to show their interest for you
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Aug 12, 2010 4:02 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
missingsm1
missingsm1missingsm1queens, New York USA1 Threads 27 Posts
i have asked the question before but my reason has been the man i am dating is giving me mixed signals. example you are saying the right things but your actions are conflicting so i start ignoring you and you start demanding more so i ask what do you want from me , more or less it is the deal breaker for me if you say i want something with youand i bring it to your attntion that you are not behaving like that is what you want then I will bring it to your attention. If no change in your behavior occurs then you will be Xed in a hurry. what is that saying "drop the zero to find a hero" this is just my reason for asking and i must make it clear i only ask if i am getting mixed signals.
HOPE IT HELPS
peace handshake comfort
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Aug 12, 2010 6:11 PM CST Why do women ask the question "what do you want from me"?
SensualBBWPlease
SensualBBWPleaseSensualBBWPleasenorthumberland, Ontario Canada116 Posts
BarbarafromTx: I have asked that question several times. Reason; the man I was seeing each time was very confusing....how else am I going to know.....lol. Dumped them each time once they answered.


Remind me to never answer that question before our 50th anniversary party OK?

peace
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