It is human to want to lash out when someone hurts you, be it physical or emotional and sometimes it hard to find that little bit of strength and self control inside to turn a cheek and take the moral high ground. I have found myself many times in situations where i have had to walk away and not answer or retaliate, and many times i was accused of being a push over. My ex and have have been separated and divorced now for 6 years, it was a very tumultuous marriage, yet now i still do stuff for him i still help him out when i can financially and otherwise. However only a few days ago my eldest brother who is like a father to me got angry with me for this and started telling me that i am a pushover and i am stupid. I dont see my ex as someone who deserves to me treated like an animal. Yes he did some horrible things and he hurt me deeply, but i have forgiven and gone past that. I believe each of us deserves a fighting chance, i treat him like a human, he is the father of my children and he was once someone i loved very much. I believe we are all connected in some insignificant way and love and kindness are two things that can help us understand each other, and we can and must give freely. I want to be treated kindly with respect and love and hence i have to exhibit the same in my dealings with others.
he will understand and accept your decision, might not be easy for him but if he cares about you and respects your friendship he will do whats best for both of you. Don't worry things will work out as they are suppose to.
that's the decent and moral thing to do ......i commend you for having the human decency to act in the manner you did. He will always hold you dear to his heart and you will always have the warmth of having a true friend and the memories, sometimes some people only pass through our lives for a short time but they leave an indelible impression on us and its a great feeling.
never felt hatred from anyone and don't know of anyone that hates me. I am a very lovable and loving person.
i however have had a situation with someone disliking me because i was chosen for a promotion at work over her and had to endure a few months of difficulty with her but i still don't think she hated me
hey Robert ...continue to keep moving on and thinking positive....you cant only talk the talk but you have to walk the walk.....keep well and be good i am ready to hit the sac..
Robert i can identify with you.....heartbreak is a terribly pain to endure, only he feels it knows it ! I do wish you all the best...you are on the path to healing yourself with your positive outlook, but there are times when we all need a little support. I wish you all the best and i hope things work out the way they are suppose to .
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